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ok well this one guy who is like my best friend, is really cute, cool and i think i might like him. I was the first one to be his friend out of all of my friends, and we talked every single day and got closer and closer, and i even thought he might have liked me. Everyone thought we were going out and made a great couple. But just recently he asked one of my best girl friends out and she said yes. now i think im starting to get jelous and we always used to talk online and now we barley do. i still want at least our friendship but i feel like its fading away and im scared because i love him (in some way not sure yet) because he is a great person. How can we grow closer again? should i tell him i might like him if and when they break up? i just have no idea what to do, and i am so confused! please help me!

thanks in advance <3

2007-05-16 10:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by sar. 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I have been friends with him since the begginging of the 2nd quarter at school. i met him at a school dance and we were both helping one of our best friends to cheer up. But we got to know eachother better in reading class. I know that doesnt sound like a long time but in that time we really connected. I can tell him anything and i trust him with all my heart.

2007-05-16 11:39:15 · update #1

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No need to be confused. He is spending less time talking to you because he is in a new relationship. Those take a lot of time and energy to develop. If he breaks up with your friend, don't tell him that you have a crush on him unless you are prepared to lose them both as friends. True friends are hard to find but there will always be more guys out there for you to date.

2007-05-16 10:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0 0

Listen hear home girl, you just got bumped out of the friend zone and that's not a good thing. For most guys we feel we need to avoid the friend zone. He may have felt like that's where he landed with you and just moved on to one of your buds. One thing that sounds weird is that you guys talked everyday and now that he's dating one of your friends, he has no time for you what so ever.....huh......well there could be a few explanations, he doesn't want to give his girl any reason to doubt his faithfulness, which is honorable, he used you as wing-man to get the other girl, which would be really crappy, but I doubt that because you said he was a great person, {Note: How long were you two friends aka how well do you really know this guy?..... "I was the first one to be his friend out of all of my friends."} also when couple starts dating they have to take time away from their other friends. As for your question about telling him and what not: I have no idea. Sorry but that answer will come to you soon enough.

2007-05-16 17:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Rob 2 · 0 0

From a guys point of view, we vary rarely pick up on a girls interest (especially if we are new to an area or shy). So even if he was interested, he may have moved on thinking you were not.

If he is now in a serious relationship, you should wait for it to run its course while still being a good friend...If they are just going out, you may want to make your feelings clear (and by clear I mean TELL HIM), so he can make a good decision. Otherwise you will beat yourself up wondering what he is thinking.

Hope this helps

2007-05-16 17:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by moteeky 2 · 0 0

well i have the same problem i feel for my best friend, but it ended up even worst so. well ask you self do you feel happy for him or sad that he is with some one else. If you do love him say it to him it will ease some of the pain, let him know you love him. Dont' break what he has with you friend, or that will break what he has with you, and you dont' want that. talk to him more like u used to, thats what i try to do with my best friend. Staying friends is better becuase you won't lose your friends, but you will loose you gf and bf, your choice though

2007-05-16 17:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Navedh M 1 · 0 0

I suggest you speak with your girlfriend. After that speak with the fellow you met just to find out what is going on. If all goes well, you can tell your friend how you really feel about him. Life is just easier when you are honest. It just makes it easier to handle situations in life.

2007-05-16 17:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0 0

You should have acted jealous as soon as you heard he was asking your friend out. Now that they're going out, he's off limits because of your friendship.

The reason he asked her out instead of you is that he's not thinking with his brain, if you know what I mean. He's allowing the chemicals in his brain to control him.

2007-05-16 17:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0 0

You 'THINK' you like him. You either are passionate for a partner or you're not. Forget about this r/ship and move on.

2007-05-16 17:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 3 · 0 0

He's probably confused too. Be a friend and see where it goes... or move on.

2007-05-16 17:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

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