Me and my friend hang out all the time and we have a great time, everyone tells us we should be together and thats what i think too but apparently he doesnt because he has a girlfriend. We still hang out but now its different. Before he ever had a girlfriend he told me he loved me when we were drunk but then the next day nothing happened. What do i do?
2007-05-16 10:54:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just appreciate the fact that you guys are best friends. There's nothing else you can do, he has a girlfriend now.
2007-05-16 10:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by тιиα ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am kinda in the same position...i'm so sorry that you have this to wonder about. I would talk to him and tell him how you feel about him and if he feels the same way. OR you could ask how him and his gf are and then if he says oh we are good, then just kinda tell him how you feel and see how he reacts and if he says the relationship is on the rocks then you may have a good chance! Though i am wondering if he said he loved you, and i know he was drunk sooo that kinda sucks cause i don't know what that means if he means it or not, anyways, and if he loves you then why is he with his gf...Well just talk it over with him, and see how things go :) I really do hope that you guys date or end up together because that is great. Having a best friend as a boyfriend or girlfriend. Always makes some of the best couples :D
2007-05-16 10:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Stephie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a fine line one has to walk in this situation. It happens to a lot of opposite sex "friends". When you spend a lot of time with someone of the opposite sex, it is not uncommon to have an affection towards them. What you need to do before making any moves is to sit back and think if you "truly" have feelings for him beyond a friendship. If you do, let him know how you feel. Keep in mind it may and probably will effect your relationship. If he really feels the same way though, it could be the best move you ever make. The last thing you want to do is look back years from now and think "what if?" Good luck...
2007-05-16 11:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dubbl1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation to be in. If he already knows your feelings for him, you don't need to tell him again and again. But, make it a point to keep loving him as a friend, even if he doesn't love you the way you wan't him to. I know it's hard to hang out with the one you love all the time, but try to not let the akwardness get in the way of your friendship. I know you can make it through! Have faith and take chances for love! :) Everything will fall into place and you will find someone you wan't to be with FOREVER, even if it isn't the one you like now.
2007-05-16 11:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by alliecat12608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is fair in love and war. This will be awful advise, but seriously girls do this stuff. Get rid of the girlfriend. Leave your panties in his room, lipstick in his glove compartment, or anything that might cause her to get upset and leave. The neat thing about getting drunk is you let down your guard and tell the truth. So, take what's yours girl.
2007-05-16 10:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let you emotions affect your friendship! At first, just jokingly say how werid it was be if somehwo you two were together and see what he thinks about it. Then, when you feel that you can handle the reject ( or when he breaks up with his girlfriend) tell him in a personal FACE TO FACE conversation and see what he thinks.
2007-05-16 10:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Michele B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he wants you as a friend, or he wouldn't be dating someone else. If you feel you can't stay friends with him, tell him you are really falling for him. But realize that could ruin the relationship you have now. Good luck.
2007-05-16 10:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful for his friendship and find yourself a nice guy..
If he has a G/F and hasn't broken up with her to be with you, t hat tells you something...
Move On Hon and don't waste time racking you brain trying to figure this out..
He's a friend only, accept that...
2007-05-16 10:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Innisfil g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Morgan....you are treading on thin ice here...all you can do is try and gage how he feels for this girlfriend....like is he in love with her or is it just lust or infatuation...you could lose his friendship for good if you show how you feel now.....if he is as much of a friend as you say you could brooch the subject with him and see what he thinks of this girl...if it is just a passing thing then drop hints of how you feel for him....he could be waiting to see how you react...hope some of this makes any sense...bri
2007-05-16 11:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Still be friends, just don't try to flirt or ask him out. Wait, time can change alot!!! But you can still be friends and hang out alot!!!
2007-05-16 10:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Papagena 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋