Ok here's the deal...I asked a guy out and he said that he would think about it...My friend had gone up to him atlest 6 times to ask him what his decison is, but its alway the same thing "I'm still thinking." I'm starting to feel like he dosen't like me, but then again if he did i would think he would say no. Its been 2 days since i asked him out. I've asked his friends why he has to think about it so much, they think cause he like me AND another girl..but can't decide if he should go out with me, or go ask the other girl out
2007-05-16 10:30:12 · 16 answers · asked by misskris_hayden 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's been too long. He's trying to hedge his bets with the other girl. Move on and be with a guy who doesn't think you're #2 in his mind!
2007-05-16 10:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you feel that he is taking to long and wasting your time, MOVE ON. If he has to decide between you and another girl let him have her because if u wait for him and he chooses her thats gonna hurt big time. Jus find someone else that thinks ur worth it because he obviously doesnt otherwise he would have said yes when u first asked him.
2007-05-16 17:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by ??cUrIoUs?? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. This is a hard question. This has happened to my friend before, but she waited for 2 weeks. Then he she said "Whatever. I don't like him no more."
So I guess it's your decision. I personally would say forget about the guy and find someone else.
But it's your life and your decision to make.
2007-05-16 17:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by ___♥Lindsey{[I Give Up]} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe waiting to see if your going to give up on him and leave since taking so long and is just an excuse since you are either are or are not interested. the thinking is just an excuse to delay action and see if you stick around. give a time limit and say after this date im gone and be serious and do it.
2007-05-16 17:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha.
let it go, your gonna end up getting your heartbroken.
I wouldn't want to date someone who likes another girl anyways.
2007-05-16 17:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by littlebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a no answer to me and he is just too chicken to say so
2007-05-16 17:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shldnt be the one chasing after him... that just makes you look like an idiot. if he wants to go with the other girl even if you are hurt pretend like your not, no one likes whiney, stupid, stalkers.( you kno wat i mean) you want him to come after you and if he isnt then just let guy... maybe he does like you but w/e the case may be just wait for him to make the next move GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-16 17:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a polite way of saying NO.
2007-05-16 17:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him... do you really want someone who is that indecisive? He is probably just trying to make you chase him because he is lazy.
2007-05-16 17:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by tehakla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have the same problem.....let him breath. It just kills them if you ignore them for a day. Let him make his one decision
2007-05-16 17:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by Leanne_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋