be your self, they are just human, like you, they are cool because they are being their selves, if you learn how to be your self, then you will be cool too, but just remember, they are just human with a brain like you, they are no superior to you or anything..... take a step up....
2007-05-16 10:40:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Since you and I are the same age, I am wondering if you have the same problem carrying on conversations over the computer. Are you having this problem just talking face to face and on the telephone or is it all the time?
If it is all the time, I would suggest trying to carry on a conversation with someone online. If you can successfully carry on a conversation, then you should be able to use the same steps in a conversation with a friend of group of people.
BTW- I am pretty sure that your dance skills do not affect your every day life and is probably not that important to the people you are conversating with.
Best of luck,
Jess
2007-05-16 10:44:43
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answered by Mlyn<3 1
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OMG!! "your lip gloss is POpin" hehehe anyways GUrl your beautiful , why do you want strangers to judge you ,just be yourself and get a hobby such as dance classes, learning how to play different instruments ,W/e really anything to boost that self confidence and LOve ur self. you know u have to love yourself first before anyone does. Follow your dreams and want you love and things will fall into place. okay? Well i hope so . There's more than appearance when it comes to beauty like a PERSONALITY kk? Well good luck, much love -Lilly-
2016-05-20 01:53:13
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answered by ? 4
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More often than not, the "cool" people are not worth all the effort when you get "in" with them.
Shallow, all about looks and hooking up.
Find people who stand out to you and are approachable. They are the ones that will end up being worthy of your time and attention- and friendship.
No one can boost your confidence but you! Volunteer somewhere. Nothing feels better than to give of yourself and to know that you are NOBLE.
2007-05-16 10:44:44
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answered by Avsky 3
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Learn to not care. I'm serious. People can't distinguish indifference from confidence. If you can convince yourself that your social interactions don't really matter at the end of the day (and they don't), you can say and do whatever you want whenever you want. People will interpret that as being confident. Don't try to be something you are not. Capitalize on what you are good at.
2007-05-16 10:39:41
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answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5
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thats completly normal bro. and you'll find that for the most part even the "cool guys" feel the exact same way as you do.
As for the ladies..just act yourself around them dude! I know thats probly not what you want to hear but its the truth. Most girls dont think the way guys do. Looks aren't everything..just make sure your personality takes the cake.
good luck bro!
2007-05-16 10:41:54
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answered by Anonymous
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TRY DATING ME:) just kidding. Dude, The less you care about what people think of you, the more people like you.
Just try and keep the conversation going, don't brag , don't ask childish questions, If talking to a chick let her brag about herself and give her compliments.
2007-05-16 10:45:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Just be comfortable with yourself. If you can be yourself with confidence then your personality will shine through and nothing is more impressive/attractive then someone who has a strong personality---- despite looks.
2007-05-16 10:41:19
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answered by Pink May 3
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You're an insecure guy.
2014-05-26 08:53:07
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answered by That Wife 3
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In your own mind think of them as your servants and butlers. It will greatly enhance your self confidence :)
2007-05-16 10:38:50
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answered by Tourang B 3
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