he doesnt work says that his record holds him from getting a job i pay for everything and his child support i do everything and he does nothing he is always making excuses but he says that he love God and that he wants to be a good person and go to heaven i am going to pray on it and talk to my church memebers maybe they can suggest something so that i can make it work or else i am going to dump him i love him and i dont want to break up with him but he has changed me as a person i am not happy ne more i am always angry and i feel hopeless he makes comments that he can get girls but then i think to my self who is going to want his no car no money worthless with two kids *** but i love him i am so very confused i dont know what to do i know that what is going on is not right and not the way to live how would he like if his daughter was supporting her boyfriend and he was doing nothing> please i need some solid advice i am really close to moving on
2007-05-16 10:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by yfavenue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Typical women, won't follow good advice. You are with a loser and you won't get rid of him. You deserve the life you have since that seems to be what you want. He isn't going to change, not for you or anyone. Makes me wonder about you...
2007-05-16 10:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear that you are in this situation. To be honest I think you need to dump him. Tell him that when he gets his life in order you guys can try again. You are an amazing woman for supporting him. But he needs to be able to support himself as well. I don't think it is worth your happiness and well being to support him. You are making his life pleasant, it doesn't seem like he makes your life pleasant. People in a relationship should enrich each other not tear each other down. He is tearing you down. I would dump him. And enjoy being single. Once you are comfortable being single then you can be comfortable being with anyone. Take some time to your self and regain your happiness.
2007-05-16 18:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every honest man should hold a job. He can find a job of some kind if he wants one. This man is lazy and needy and using you. Your pastor is right. You are unhappy and angry. You need to be with someone who makes you feel happy, special and lucky. Go find that someone and leave this jerk.
2007-05-16 18:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You subconsciously have made your decision already. Go with it and get rid of the bum. He won't get a job as long as you're providing everything for him.
2007-05-16 18:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by cairnlvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋