I just recently got out of a divorce, and one of my husband's complaints was that I am not attractive anymore. Now that I'm back on the market how can I make myself more attractive?
2007-05-16 10:01:33 · 19 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think self confidence can make some one attractive.
My ex-husband used to tell me that I would never be able to get another man, simply because that's what he wanted me to believe. He knew if I didn't have self confidence that I wouldn't even try.
You probably are still attractive he just wants you to believe otherwise. Don't fall for his crap. A really genuine smile makes someone more attractive as well. Smile because you got out of your bad marriage, and smile because the best is yet to come!!!
2007-05-16 10:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥itsme♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people in a relationship do let them selves go sometimes, thinking that their relationship is secure. If this is true there are lots of things you can do. You can join a gym, get a nice new hair style, get some fashionable clothes, etc. You have some incentive now. So make him eat them words!!!!
2007-05-16 10:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by david 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN START BY BELIEVING THAT YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE... BEAUTY SHINES FROM WITHIN.
SECOND, GO SHOPPING AND TRY ON THINGS THAT YOU WOULDNT USUALLY TRY ON....YOU MAY LIKE SOME NEW THINGS. TRY NEW MAKE UP...NOT TOO MUCH THOUGH. JUST A NEW LIP GLOSS, A LITTLE EYELINER. LIGHT CONCEALER, IF NEEDED. BUT NEVER TOO MUCH. WEAR HIGH HEELS AT LEAST TWICE A WEEK..THEY LIFT...IN PLACES THAT WOULD EXCITE YOU. :) BEGIN TO ENJOY YOURSELF, DRINK A GLASS OF WINE IN THE TUB, ETC, ETC.
THAT'S A START.
2007-05-16 10:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The picture on your 360 page look fine to me. Your ex was probably just saying that to hurt your feelings. Even if he is being truthful, who cares? He is your ex now, so what does it matter what he thinks?
2007-05-16 10:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what an asshole. if that was his reason for leaving you, he wasnt worth your time anyway!! having self confidence is the main ingredient. but if you really feel like changing something. ask your friends(those you can trust). hair, clothes etc. at the end of the day "mr right" will except you for who and what you are
2007-05-16 10:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all self esteem. Don't take what your es says as if it was true. Exercise, diet and a good attitude will always help. Looks are not everything (there's also Money...lol).
No really, believe in yourself.
2007-05-16 10:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by bad face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What one man doesn't find attractive, another man might. Don't change for anyone, just be yourself. Who ever is with you has to be with you accepting you the way you are.
Good luck
2007-05-16 10:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to believe in yourself
don't let nobody tell you otherwise
from the picture you look very attractive
2007-05-16 10:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by daves_cuisine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just m is correct send me a picture of your body to tell you.
2007-05-16 16:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by moh_2276 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to that jerk , tell your self you are nice looking inside and out , keep saying that to your self , and believe, his wants you to feel down on your self , coz his the ugly one.
2007-05-16 10:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋