2007-05-16 10:17:32 · 18 answers · asked by crystal n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm afraid that it sounds like your relationship is on a downward slide. Perhaps that is why you are needy.
2007-05-16 10:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. If you are planning to get married, it is totally reasonable to expect to spend a lot of time with him. But as someone else said, if he's your fiance and he's ALREADY ignoring you, how bad do you think it's going to be once you're married?
It sounds to me like the smart thing to do would be to tell him to take a hike and let everyone know there won't be a wedding.
2007-05-16 10:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by triviatm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't realize what he is doing, or how he is making you feel. If you are going to marry him, now is the best time to figure out ways to communicate with him, otherwise it will never work out. You can always flirt with him. What did you do when you two first started to hook up? Personally, I don't see anything wrong with just saying "hey, i've missed you..come here and spend some time with me"
2007-05-16 10:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And just what is wrong with admitting human needs? If, when you say you miss him, he calls you "needy" and "dependent" as if you were a spoiled child, it is high time to dump his crass, crude, insensitive, selfish butt and find someone unafraid of closeness and mutual support. A creep that calls you "needy" isn't worth the time of day!
2007-05-16 10:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your fiance is doing this,when you are about to get married maybe you should ask him what he wants from you exactly and what he will get out of you being his wife.if he is ignoring you after you tried to explain about how you feel maybe you need to reevaluate whether or not this man is the one you are willing to spend the rest of your life with.
2007-05-16 10:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what good is a fiance who ignores you? If there's one person in the whole world who should CATER to you, it's your fiance.
2007-05-16 10:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by gouldgirl2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels like he needs some space. Try waiting for him to call you. A lot of times that will make guys want to be with you more....(go figure!)
2007-05-16 10:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by Marie Catherine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes your fiance you should be able to fully express your emotions with him and make sure that he realizes that you are going to be his wife and that he needs to do more to satisfy your needs as an individual...other wise your marriage will probably not last..
2007-05-16 10:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need a new fiance
2007-05-16 10:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to evaluate you relationship. Why is he ignoring you? Is there something else going on?
2007-05-16 10:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Liz B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋