I been with my baby girl's father for 8 years. And his aunt is a real B****. She so bad that to get to him she will hurt my oldest daughter feelings and she is only 9 years old, by telling me that her mother is going to pick up the girls and then will call her mother and tell her that if my oldest daughter is in her house she is going to put her out. And we don't call her or go over her house. Now she keeps sending her kids to my house and will down talk me in front of the kids before they get there, and they tell my kids what she is saying about me and my oldest daugther who now feel like it because of her that she acts the way she do.This is also hurting my relationship with my baby girls father. He act's as if he don't see what she is doing and it so bad that he even told me one time when we was fighting because of her that when i'm gone she is going to be there and that really hurt. I feel like when she come's around that he is almost somebody else.Please help!!
2007-05-16 06:22:48 · 9 answers · asked by Lovechild 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is to much drama for you and the kids: one stop her kids from coming to your house,: two If the baby's father will not stand up for you drop him. Because we know our family better than any one and he is not man enough to stop this you need to cut all ties with this family until they can act like adults.
2007-05-16 08:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to be looking into what kinda relationship is going on between your guy and his aunt. I'd start looking for a new guy, no one needs that kinda crap and you most certainly don't need your kids being raised in that kind of environment. You certainly don't need to have her kids over to your place if the only reason they are there is to spread more of her poison. It seems obvious that your man puts his family way, way before you and your kids. Unless you want to live the rest of your life that way you need to be getting out. Explain this to your guy and let him know that the way things are is not an acceptable situation.
2007-05-16 13:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by wolfatrest2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go around her. If she comes over pack your kids up and go out. Or tell her she is unwelcome. Tell you bf if he want to hang out with her to go to her house, because you will not have your kids hear her BS. Also block her phone number from being able to call your house, its like *56 or something, call the phone company they will tell you. You could talk to her and see what her beef s with you and try to resolve the problem, because she is your BF's family, and that will never change.
2007-05-16 13:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn them all for hurting your 9 year old! Lose the losers. Stand for your kids and yourself! Your relationship with that family should have ended when the abuse began. He does not respect you or the children. Don't respect someone just because he is the father and they are family. They do not deserve respect. Your children do.
2007-05-16 13:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not continue allowing your daughter to be in the middle of all this.....Shame on him for not being man enough to open his eyes and his mouth to those members of his family that are treating you and his child with so much disrespect....His actions show he unfortunately cares very little about you or his daughter. What can you do to get yourself and your daughter out of this relationship. You both deserve so much better....
2007-05-16 13:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by mago 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMM...who's house is she coming to? Is it not your home....you don't have to put up with that mess in your house. and I would put a stop to her nasty mouth kids coming over....remind them all who's home they are in.
2007-05-16 13:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight talk to her and say no .
2007-05-16 13:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance.
if it doesnt work, Distance.
that should do.
2007-05-16 13:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by santosh_musicman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up! You can't change family.
2007-05-16 13:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by PSU93 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋