I want to know this...please tell!
2007-05-16 06:18:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My guy is VERY BIG and I pdnt want to seem like a wimp to him...for as much as I like it, I dont want anything to get broke.
2007-05-16 06:31:48 · update #1
Because they have a very small brain, so they think everything else about them are big.
2007-05-16 06:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by a p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself! Most considerate men who truly love their partner are not turned on by a girl saying "it hurts" or "oww". If anything, I would have to ask myself, what am I doing or not doing to make this as easy and pleasurable.for her.Maybe, I would reexamine the concept of "foreplay". Am I a "bam bam thank you man?" or should I spend more time in foreplay until you are well lubricated? Should I perhaps use lubrication like KY to make it easier for the girl? If after doing all of this, several time, and the girl is still uncomfortable and hurts, I would tell her that maybe she should see her gynecologist and make certain that there is not an obstruction or polyps or something that is making you hurt. There is more to having sex than just "doing it;, there is tenderness, a respect for the girl, a desire to be aware of her physical and emotional feelings and there should be a desire to please her as well as yourself.
2007-05-16 06:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's a power thing, the nicest guy in the world still wants to know he holds the power in the relationship, and knowing he can cause a little pain during sex, without meaning too, is powerful. It shows he is the stronger of the sexes, women are so strong these days that some men need to know they still have power over women. So this is a turn on for alot of men, not all but some. And most men love a woman who is vocal in bed, "Owwing and Ahhing in bed" adds to their sexual experience. So "oww and ahh" alot if it turns him on, you still know who's in control...lol..Good Luck..
2007-05-16 06:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Innisfil g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It satisfies an aggressive urge, an urge to be in control and have a submissive female? Because you're just saying ow, you're not kicking him in the head and making him get off or stop. If you mean "ow, stop right now!" you'd better find some way to say it so that he knows you mean it, and you're not just playing up to those aggressive urges.
2007-05-16 06:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jarien 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they actually think we like it that hard.........its part of the conquering......and the fact is, it molds and reshapes our body to fit them....so its a turn on for them on a very basic, even they don't understand it level.
On the other hand, you don't ever need to hurt so the next time you tell him it hurts and he starts going at him more, push him off. Either he respects you and your comfort level or he doesn't get any!!
2007-05-16 06:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real man who is a great sexual partner will not want to physically hurt you during sex.
a joe blow d.ickhead will think it's great because he wants to validate the size of his .di.ck.
little do they know that just because it hurts doesn't mean their d..icks are big, it means they don't have the motion to flow the ocean.
p.s. use lots of lube and it may not hurt as bad.
2007-05-16 06:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-16 00:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase they think the "Oww" means that they are so big that it hurts you- guys like the idea that they have a big penis
2007-05-16 06:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... I've never enjoyed any hint that my wife was in pain during sex.
Time to use a narrower brush in your questions.
2007-05-16 06:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by not gh3y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know ppl like that, they get excited because you are making noise, and any kind of noise is arousing to them! Its disgusting, sidistic freaks lol!
2007-05-16 06:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋