does it hurt?

Question

to have sex if you're a virgin.

Answer 1

The first time, yes it was painfull but nothing too extreme, it depends a lot on how much you can relax.

Answer 2

Fisrt of all.... here's a fact. Birth is pain. Life is pain. Death is pain. Deal with it.

And second... Any women who says (and there were a few here) that you should wait until marriage is out of her MIND!!!!!

Do these women REALLY expect a man will ACCEPT not getting sex - when and how he wants it - until he signs on the dotted line for you.... and have to give you 1/2 of his life, future and fortune just because thats the "price" these women put on totally inexperienced sex??????

No wonder divorce, prostitution and cheating are so popular. Even a professional WHORE - who's JOB it is to satisfy him - is less expensive than that. At least SHE isn't gonna DENY him one of his most basic physiological NEEDS. And he doenst have to jump through HOOPS for it.

These very women are the ones that will say "I am not gonna have sex with you until we are married for these reasons.... but if you go out and look for it elsewhere, then POOF! You are an asshole".

Think again.

A man has as much of a right to go out and get WHATEVER he wants as much as any woman does, in ANY way that he pleases. No woman can blame a man for that. ESPECIALLY women who believe in withholding sex from him UNTIL MARRIAGE. If she has a problem with that, then it's HER problem. Dont make it HIS.

After all , he only wants sex. Is that so terrible?? Look at all the demands you expect to make from HIM before giving him any. And you expect this from men you haven't MET YET!

Truly pathetic.

-> You withhold sex until marriage -> He says OK honey I love and respect you enough to wait -> you get him to sign a marriage paper and make all kinds of vows --> then you can still say NO and not even TRY to be a good lover -> he cheats because you are lousy in bed -> you call him a lying cheating asshole after he goes out and gets what you denied him --> failed marriage ends in miserable divorce -> and take him for 1/2 of everything he's worth.

I respect a $200 whore more than THAT kind of woman ANY DAY. And I KNOW Im not alone.

I supposed they all say "WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE" because if you found a guy who is willing to do that then congratulations !!! You just found a man you can walk all over and make demands from for the rest of your marriage.

No wonder that concept is so appealing to these women and why the DIVORCE rate is over 50%! Well shame on the "man" thats lets you get away with that. I hope you and your DOORMAT will be very happy togther.

Boy, am I suddenly so GLAD I never married.

Thanks "ladies".

Answer 3

I think that depends on the person. However, you should wait to have sex as long as you can until you find the person you know you will spend the rest of your life with. Sex complicates everything, trust me, and you don't want to end up having sex with someone who is going to break up with you two weeks later or having sex and ending up pregnant before you are ready for something like that.

Answer 4

yes, it does hurt.
You need to wait until you are married. I didn't and I regret it. It really is something special that should be saved for your husband. I look back and think about who I wasted it on. It is so much more intense with a spouse.
Sometimes as young ladies we feel it is a necessary evil. When you get older you learn to respect yourself more. You don't have to give it up to some boyfriend to be special. Actually it makes you just like everyone else. Men really respect women who respect their bodies enough to have some control of it. They may get frustrated but the right man is willing to wait.

Answer 5

It depends on your body and how comfortable [emotionally] you are with the situation. If you are completely sure that you are ready, make sure that you use protection. Hopefully your partner will be made aware that you are a virgin and he will go fairly slow for you. If you don't feel like it's right, you can ask him to stop at anytime.

Answer 6

It doesn't hurt like you would expect if you're with the right person and they are caring, understanding and gentle. Just make sure that you are ready or it will be a horrible experience physically and mentally.

Answer 7

depends on your age and his age. I'm also a virgin and my bf is 28, i'm 19 and my co-workers said that he won't go easy because he has done it before i know it trust me don't ask how i know i just do. but the same co-workers told me to practice with a dildo to one pop myself and get myself use to something in there thats bigger than fingers....anyway so it all really depends but most likely it will hurt. you don't have to be married don't listen to those ppl because ppl regret getting married and i much rather regret sex than a whole marriage!

Answer 8

How old are you? yes it does hurt! But if your not ready for the consequences of your actions DON'T!

But after the first time or so it stops hurting and feels really good

Answer 9

Yes, specially if your first is packing a nice thick one. Believe me, I know. But after a few couple times it won't hurt has much. It will feel good if he knows what he is doing.

She relax and breath

Answer 10

im not gonna lie to you yes it does, but he also has to know what he is doing and he has to be gentle and no don't use a dildo to pop ya self im mean if you wanna shove something plastic in u or rubbery then go for if that how you wanna remeber lossing your virginity for the 1st time