How to make her first sex special? part 2?

Question

I couldn't figure out how to edit my previous question. So I decided to post a follow up. Sorry.

First I want to clear things up. I have had sexual experience and I know what its all about, but she doesn't. We are both very eager to have sex and agreed to do it before marriage. We are in a long distance relationship. We have been together for 10 months, but seen each other only for 4 days. I am going to see her next month and so wanted to make our first time really special.

I have asked her how she would like to have her first time. But she doesn't know. She just said: look around on the internet, so here I am :-)

I don't need advice on the intercourse itself. I just wanted to know how to make it really special and romantic? I know that everyone does candles and rose petals, but I want to be more original than that. Any ideas?

Answer 1

No offence, but if you want to be original, why do you want OTHER PEOPLE'S ideas??

Candles and rose petals are used so often for a good reason. Girls like them, it's romantic, and worthy of remembering. Plus candlelight makes both of you more attractive; not just because visibility is reduced, but also because your pupils dilate in darkness, and in a scientific study, people with larger pupils are considered better looking.

Just stick with what works. That's my advice :)

Edit: And while I'm thinking about it... If you've only seen each other for four days within a ten month period... then it's a bit damn soon! You need to spend longer than four days together before having sex!!!!!!!

What is WRONG with the world today... Four weeks ago, I thought people who said what I'm about to were idiots... but I'll say it anyway.

God made sex as a special gift between two people. It requires emotional commitment. A very STRONG emotional commitment and bond; sex complicates things to no end. I'm not necessarily one of the 'save it until marriage' brigade, but I can't help feeling that there needs to be more of a bond... And no, talking on the phone every night doesn't count as quality time.

Answer 2

why are you having sex with each other when you've only seen each other 4 days out of the 10 months you've been together.

OMG! did you meet her over the internet? is that where you two hooked up?

ok if it's from one of those dating sites like eHarmoney then ok cause i know people who have gotten married because of that site but if you just met her in a chat room... doesnt sound so great. lol but hey if you've been "together" in the mental sense, then great go for it.

who am i to judge?

i dont know what might make it really special. try it somewhere new. like in a department store or something lol. just kidding ummm yea i have no idea. just let it come naturally.

Answer 3

let her know how you feel on being the first one to take her virginity. while making love to her let her know how special she is. cuddle her and kiss her that made my first time feel like it was special and not just having sex but making love.dont get into to much of sex play that feels more like just sex partner stuff. juss kiss and massage the body and make her feel real good and sexy

Answer 4

make it a full day experience --- ladies appreciate the extras --- spend a nice day together ---- go out sightsee have meals together buy her flowers be attentive to her needs --- then a good but light meal a special meal together ---- best wishes