He's been sending signals which strongly suggest he likes me. He's also been saying words which are leading to the conclusion that he's into me. But he wouldn't say it. We're losing time, cause I'll be leaving next week and I haven't decided yet if I'll come back. I don't want to do the first move. What should I do? Help!
2007-05-16 03:54:22 · 16 answers · asked by Nia F 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should just wait, and if you're scared that he'll leave and never come back to you or anything like that, then maybe he doesn't really love you, or "like" you the way that you want him to. If he is sending you signals, then maybe it's true. But if you are really sure that he loves you, then just give it time. It's not easy for men to say that they love us, either. Good luck! :)
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Asia~♥
2007-05-16 03:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by ASIA :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrap him up in your mind as a warm happy memory of the great love that could have been. Take him out and dust him down on the really bad days in your life.
Don't wait for him and mess up the warm fuzzy feeling. Move on and have a great life.
2007-05-16 11:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those words are literally the strongest and most powerfull of all eventhough they are always used at the wrong time and wrong time and wrong person!!! simply if he loves u truly then he has already said them to u within the heart him saying it will just make u feel stronger for him!!!!
2007-05-16 11:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you love him first I guess and then you just wiat and see what he's gonna do, because if he really say he loves you he needs to show it and not buy his way in..
Ya gurl Shanequa 3.
2007-05-16 10:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him first, after next week it will be to late, and you will always wounder. if he doesn't say anything back then at least your'll know good luck
2007-05-16 10:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE him say anything - he either will or won't say it - sometimes you have to take the lead - ask him
2007-05-16 10:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't love you, or he does, but the timing is wrong. Don't pressure him. You'll both regret it. Timing is everything.
2007-05-16 10:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by tobeyp2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never 'force' anyone to say that to you. They will only say it if they mean it (or, in some cases [and I'm talking generally here] - to get you into bed...). If you feel it, say it to him.
2007-05-16 10:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone say they love/like you. If you have to make them then it must not be very sincere.
2007-05-16 10:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by QWERTY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him say it with time. He has to say, so let him be confident, sure and comfortable about it, actually it would be in your favor.
2007-05-16 11:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋