I'v been dating this cute, rich girl for 2 years, but her attitude is not good, she brings me down. She cheated on me so things just are not going to work, and she can't seem to let me go. In between her alcoholic benges, I have reconected with an old friend and she is totally smoking! a very hot girl and really easy going too. She has told me how she feels about me, she said "one day we will be together" and she told me that she has felt attracted to me for several years, but she has a boyfriend she has been dating on and off for several years, he is a cool guy, I'v known him awhile myself. What should I say to this girl, I dont want to wait for one day to be together. What would you do in this situation? P.S. the really hot girl and I have never had sex.
2007-05-16 03:21:15 · 21 answers · asked by realestate_nate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to walk away from your current relationship before you begin a new one. You've been cheated on by your g.f. so that gives you an out. Good luck!
2007-05-16 03:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's a small deal that we're trying to make big here. Tell the gal how you feel, go from there... Tell the rich one you're moving on and that is how it is and that you'd appreciate it if she'd stop trying b/c you know in you heart that it just isn't going to work, be honest! Until the other gal makes her mind up to dump the guy she's on and off with for good -don't get involved. You will get hurt and be let down be sure he is out of her system before you and her get serious! But Be honest with her and tell her where you stand and what your hopes are...
2007-05-16 10:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you end up with the other girl you should really respect yourself enough to dump the rich girl. She doesn't respect you or care about you enough to be faithful and she doesn't deserve your loyalty. After you have dealt with that situation, you can move on to the next. If you really want to be with this other girl, let her know how you feel and see how she reacts. If she really likes you the way you like her then she'll let you know. Just don't be pushy or you may be rejected in more ways than one, you may lose your chance with her romantically, but you also may lose her as a friend. Regardless of what happens with the girl you are interested in, you still need to focus on moving past the girl who brings you down!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-05-16 10:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by maggiemae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First leave the one you are with before getting into any new relationship.
This new girl.....let us review your story....SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!! Let her choose to leave and respect him and her enough not to go and encroach on someone elses's relationship.
If you are just the rebound guy or she is the rebound girl it will never work.
If you are "the other man" and she leaves this other guy for you won't you always wonder if she will find someone new to leave you for later?
You both need to be single and out of what ever relationships you are in before starting a new one. That is only fair to all parties involved.
Ummm....just a thought perhaps you should rething your descriptions of women as there is nothing about either one of them being smart, funny, witty, thoughtful or any other meaningful thing just "cute, rich girl" and "totally smoking"....not the most in depth way of describing any one!
2007-05-16 10:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of your current relationship first. Then take some time for yourself. If you think your going to start dating this other girl, it's not likely. She probably is attracted to you but she will more than likely stay with her on and off boyfriend. If she sees that you are confident enough to not go chasing after her she may come to you. Take some time to let the present situation with your soon to be ex calm down first. She may cause you more drama than you think.
2007-05-16 10:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by blue_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are guys so shallow. Just because she is hot doesn't mean she will be a good girlfriend. You need to get over yourself and your obsession with the way someone looks are the money they have and start looking at what type of person they are. Sounds to me like this so called hot girl is just stringing you along if she really wanted you she'd break it off with her bf now to be with you. Now if your not happy with the other girl because of her attitude dump her but expect to be unhappy with all the girls you date since you pick them for looks and money instead of who they are.
2007-05-16 10:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you waiting for? The opportunity has presented itself to you, but now its up to you. Grab the bull by the horns and run with it. The answer is really so simple here. Youre in an unhappy relationship and want out so whats the problem. If you want something, tak a risk, but if you want something bad enough, youll risk everything. Get moving before the door closes. Good luck
2007-05-16 10:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly i would finish with your girlfriend as you are not happy with her. There is no guarantee that you will get together with the other girl but if you want to try then go for it...be careful that you dont lose a good friend tho if she rejects you.
2007-05-16 10:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by pinkkittenliverpool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off get rid of the cheater any on that cheats is trash!!! the sex thing i would wait for the right girl i'm going 2 sound old school but wait till your married i didn't now i feel bad that my husband wasn't my first but i was his who ever you end up with as long as you love each other
2007-05-16 10:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave the cheating gf because you deserve better. If the hot one really wants to be with you, she needs to leave her bf and then you can hook up. Do the classy thing and get out of your current relationships first because you don't want to be the slim who cheats with the hottie.
2007-05-16 10:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋