Im 26, and feel like a kid...I work in the office at a small factory..About 10 guys in the shop...Theres guy thats been here a few months now, Hes the youngest guy, and closest to my age..younger than me.....Hes cute...Im shy, and he seems alittle shy...So I may not even be his type....I dont want anything serious...But alittle fun and flirting is good...
2007-05-16 05:09:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To "cowboy"..Im not flirting now...And I dont see anything wrong with that...Im an honest person and wouldnt lead him on...I think you thought my question wrong..
2007-05-16 05:16:54 · update #1
Well the guys in the shop and me have difference breaks...Im the only office person here...All the guys are on break when I come into work at 9am...And everyone usually says good morning to me...
2007-05-16 05:19:43 · update #2
And my job has some money issues...They are in need of work...THey might do layoffs soon...and with him being new Im afraid he might be one fo the first to go...And this place might just close the doors alos in a few months if work doesnt pick up...
2007-05-16 05:54:00 · update #3
It isn't a bad thing to flirt and have fun! Smile a lot, say hi, ask him how he is. Go to lunch! You will never know unless you try.
Just relax and enjoy! Until you are friends you won't even know if you like the guy! And who knows, you might not work together forever!
2007-05-16 05:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by daylat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you've already checked him out during break times (probably with others around, too, making it safer) and exchanged comments during such 'group' communications, I'd say just drop him a note about going to some cafe for lunch break or even some after work spot where everyone hangs out - it may be easier doing it in a threesome (or more) so it doesn't look to everyone else that one rejected the other if one on one meetings don't pan out.
Be patient - anything worth waiting for is worth waiting for.
2007-05-16 12:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little flirting and fun is not good. Your giving him the wrong impression Honey, so, stop it.
A work relationship is never going to work. They never do. There's always going to be someone else around the corner that's going to be waiting for the next one so. Sorry.
2007-05-16 12:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kinda in my situation, except that I don't REALLY like him (yet? I don't wanna). But I'm curious and like to get to know him more...I'm 23, he's 26, but I don't know if I want to mix that with work. =S Doesn't it suck!?!
2007-05-16 12:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋