Family & Relationships - 13 May 2007

I filed for divorce with my estranged wife who I havn't seen for 7 yrs and lives 1000+ miles away and she responded with a restraining order. Whats Her problem?

2007-05-13 05:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by ski 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, even if you have not kept up with the entire story. my wife of 18 years has just told me she does not want to be married, nor does she ever want to be with another man...EVER. that includes me...It would be imposible to give you all the details here, a short version I will try.

The fighting has all been about money...I took it all away.

I go to find out that her psychiatrist told her that in doing that, that I had taken the role of my wifes dad, and that my wife now feels I have fallen into the role of her dad. Now, he has helped her rememberd every little detail that my wife had experianced about her dad raping her. Ultimatey, it may end our marraige

OK...I'm confused.wouldn't his role to be to help her cope with the child abuse and get on with her life? not help her remember something so horrific? he has also refused to concill us together, claiming "conflict of interest."

My wife is lifeless...there is not a stitch of passion. Would U want to remeber? OR FORGET?

2007-05-13 05:33:38 · 20 answers · asked by not for now 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He died in Dec. 31yrs old. How can help her handle today?I am going there for a BBQ and I am the only other child. I am 35. What can I say to ease the pain she must be feeling?

2007-05-13 05:32:27 · 8 answers · asked by HethLN 1 in Family

I was raped at 13. I am now 22 and I don’t think I’ll ever have a normal relationship, because I’ve completely gone of sex and what guys going to want a girl who doesn’t want sex?

2007-05-13 05:31:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's pretty complicated, but just trust me...
I think I hurt my mom's feelings this morning, by not going to church... That in itself is a complicated issue, that I don't really want to talk about right now, but I think it made her sad, even though she didn't even ask me to go. We actually sort of celibrated Mother's Day yesterday, because someone invited her and my dad to an Aniversary party today, but I still feel guilty. I want to make it up to her... any ideas?

2007-05-13 05:31:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He constantly tells me how great I am with our 5 month old son. We got into a fight last week in which he said some hurtful things to me. He would not even spend the weekend with me, and decided to go out with his friends last night instead of spend time with me on my first mothers day. He did not get me a gift or tell me happy mothers day. I am so hurt. What is your take on this matter?

2007-05-13 05:30:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When my son was 3 mo old, my husband got a vasectomy even though I want another child. He thought I would get over it, but it's 6 mo later and I'm no where close. He says he can't be happy with two children - I don't think I can be happy with only one - but now I'm trapped. What do I do?

2007-05-13 05:28:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i forgot to get my mom something for mothers day but my little brother and sister got her stuff. so now im screwedd. helpp what shoud i do?

2007-05-13 05:21:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when a guy has been dating someone for a year and leaves her for another girl, how does the other girl do it? How does she make him leave her?

2007-05-13 05:18:53 · 16 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

do most men stay with their current girlfriend until they find another?

2007-05-13 05:14:51 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

On sundays he is either sleeping or is with his friends, dining and drinking. I am married for 7 years, have a kid and am working. Ours was a love marriage of which only marriage remains, love has evaporated. I am frustrated and want to end life. wht do I do

2007-05-13 05:13:19 · 10 answers · asked by mommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mums of the world unite! Light a candle and say a prayer for little Maddie tonight, hope she'll be found safe and well and returned to her family, from one mum to another pray for her. Pass to ALL mums.

2007-05-13 05:05:20 · 5 answers · asked by mummy 3 in Family

plus she is really an easy girl, so on top of me having the hots for her I know she is dumb enough to be willing to do something.
she already broke one of hers teachers marriage, do you get me?
my wife is hotter than her but still I wish I could have them both

2007-05-13 04:58:33 · 6 answers · asked by JOSECUBAS 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been married to her son for a yr now.....
and i dnt know but she is really annoying...
we live with my inlaws only coz they are old and we have to take care of them (he is 72 and she is 60).......in their house....i mean my hubby is a doctor (3rd yr residency) so we can like afford a place of our own.........
no my question us since the day we got married she never let us go alone anywhere.........i mean we didnt even go on our honeymoon yet!!
every vacation my hubby gets she wants to go to her daughter's place in georgia and spend every vacation there........
even on weekends she won't let us go out by ourselves!!!she has to go with us even to he night clubs!!! i mean for god's sake she is 60!
this vacation we r going to georgia again...but i want to go somewhere else next vacation WITHOUT them...........howfdo i tell her that? i mean she gets upset like a little kid....
a few months ago me and my hubby were planning a four day vacation to go to LA and have fun....she got so

2007-05-13 04:57:34 · 11 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Family

my bf was bored of sex with me. i dont know the different ways of sex pls help me

2007-05-13 04:53:44 · 17 answers · asked by shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

What makes you say it?
why cant you just wait until she feels comfortable saying it to you?

2007-05-13 04:46:35 · 18 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

For as long I've known about sexuality, I've seen myself as "straight". I'm seeing myself as more "bi-curious" now, and I'm sorta having a problem with it.

My main problem is that I have no idea whether the girl I like is interested in me. She's smart, athletic, a bit of a tomboy, funny, and plays the trumpet. We hang out a lot, especially when our concert band and jazz band goes out to perform.'

How can I tell if she's interested, or try to show her subtly that I'm interested?

2007-05-13 04:44:25 · 5 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy for a little over a year now. when we met he had a girlfriend but he liked me and i liked him,we kinda clicked. I kept my distance the past year for respect towrds the girlfrined and in hopes their relationship would fan out, they are still together but I was told he still likes me and we still have a thing between us.Would it be bad to mention something to him about how i like him, or is it bad to jepardize another realtionship?

2007-05-13 04:42:46 · 12 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married last July. He emigrated here from a small island in the caribbean where we met. I filed for him and he's been here a year and a half. Once he arrived, I found out that he fathered two children back home and that he dropped out of highschool. When we met he told me that he had no children and that he's an engineering student at the local university. He says he lied to me because if he were truthful I wouldn't want to be with him. I probably should've done my due diligence but I did not. Most of my family and friends warned me that he was using me for a greencard - but I was so caught up in love that I didn't heed their warnings. He hasn't worked since he's been here and all of the bills are on me. He can't get a job because he has no GED. I paid for him to go to a GED prep course and he took the test and failed. That was last June. Now I'm just tired and fed up and think my marriage is a mistake. I'm only 26 years old and I can be doing so much better. Help!

2007-05-13 04:37:56 · 17 answers · asked by Clicker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he is the bartender at the corner bar where i go a couple times a month.The first time i met him he asked for my number and later we ended up at the same friends house,i crashed on the couch and him on the floor.He drove me to my car the next morning.I later found out he has a girlfriend so i backed off.he never called but he always flirts with me when im in there and gives me free drinks.i was told he likes me still(a year later)but he still has his girlfriend,and i saw her and she is not all that pretty.would it be bad to tell him i like him also and maybe he will leave her?is that bad?

2007-05-13 04:33:49 · 12 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

What if he has changed? What if I couldn't notice that over the phone or the internet? wedding can't be postponed: Cultural issues...

2007-05-13 04:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by Shereen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife and i have been thru alot we really love each other do u think its possible we can b happy again

2007-05-13 04:17:27 · 15 answers · asked by paultoledo34 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of one year just broke-up with me. I had noticed that his moods revolved around what was happening in his life. If he found a new friend, had his daughter visiting, or went to visit friends on the west coast, he would come back and be almost "high". In between these events in his life, his mood would be down. He would be very irritable and not want to do anything. He doesn't have any close friends. His immediate family live 300 miles away and their religious differences keep them apart. The friends he does make that are local he quickly loses, or distances himself from. At first I thought it was his drinking problem. He became sober in March and everything was great for a while, now he's down again. He recently broke-up with me. I know that I can't do anything to get him back, but I really want to understand what he is going through.

2007-05-13 04:10:42 · 4 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Friends

She admitted to seeing someone over a several month period, going out on several dates, kissing quite often, and having mutual oral sex once. When I found out, I asked her to move out. We have 2 girls aged 3 and 1. She's the only person I've ever been with sexually and I don't want to be with anyone else. She told me the other day that she has been missing me and wants to get back together, but later admitted that he broke up with her two to three weeks ago. Her mother has been married 4 times and doesnt have long gaps between marriages. Im not sure if my wife misses "me" or being in a relationship. What really hurts is that for the last several months I've felt emotionally starved for her affection and to think of her giving it to someone else while we were married hurts me deeper than I ever really knew it could before this happened. She says she's sorry, but she doesnt really go out of her way to show it. I'm hurting a lot, and the thought of them together really bothers me

2007-05-13 04:08:57 · 27 answers · asked by Brian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I don't think I'm flirting with him, but all my friends say I'm "power flirting". All because I sat near him in Social Studies, and sometimes he offers to help with stuff we're studying and I have no clue how to do it. I mean I guess we have been hanging out a little more than normal and I'll admit I like him, but we're only friends. Am I flirting with him and what would you consider "flirting" anyway?

2007-05-13 03:54:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be with Playboy's Playmate of the Year or Time Magazine's Woman of the Year. (Yes, I know this question is from a movie, but I think it's an interesting question)

2007-05-13 03:49:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We can live off of my income, but sometimes I feel like I'm being taken for granted. I know it takes a long time getting a business established sometimes (It's been 6 mo. so far). Should I set a deadline for financial support to his dream? If so, how do I break it to him gently? If not, should I continue to foot almost all the bills indefinitely?

2007-05-13 03:49:17 · 14 answers · asked by Ky 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 18 years old my interest is in computers and other electronics. I am outgoing. I am looking for people that can email me and just chat with. I am about to enter college. I want to make more firends. people can email me anytime. I love emailing people. I check it everyday.

looking forward to hear your clean jokes and what you like

2007-05-13 03:44:27 · 5 answers · asked by Bryan D 1 in Friends

2007-05-13 03:31:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 03:31:56 · 26 answers · asked by ala 1 in Marriage & Divorce