I know this guy for a little over a year now. when we met he had a girlfriend but he liked me and i liked him,we kinda clicked. I kept my distance the past year for respect towrds the girlfrined and in hopes their relationship would fan out, they are still together but I was told he still likes me and we still have a thing between us.Would it be bad to mention something to him about how i like him, or is it bad to jepardize another realtionship?
2007-05-13 04:42:46 · 12 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might like you, but he might love her.
If he really wanted to be with you, he would have dumped her already.
Getting along well with someone doesn't mean that they want to be in a relationship with you. There is so much more that makes someone the one you want to have a relationship with and one just someone you click with but are all wrong for you.
Bottom line, if you care about him and his feelings at all, don't interfere with his relationship.
2007-05-13 04:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are meant to be together you will be but nothing good comes out of anything that's done the wrong way and interfering with someones relationship is defiantly a wrong thing to do because you're only thinking about yourself and not the other persons feelings
2007-05-13 12:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by GoodGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but the only answer is YES!!!
Nobody will ever congratulate an other for braking up an other's relationship, and don't forget the bad karma...
Just remember 'once a cheat, always a cheat' if his cheating on his girl with you then he will quite easily cheat on you!!!!
Just think about it before jumping into something serious...
GOOD LUCK
2007-05-13 11:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a really fun friend more fun than his g/f never nag or moan and you will start to look better than the borin g/f that has too many opinions about things and moans alot.men are simple creatures and like things easy in life.so if she is a winger and youre not you will look like a good choice of mate and he will move on if he likes you.dont tell him straight out that you fancy him,but flirt so its obvious without saying a word and if he asks are you flirting lok confused lol he will find it sexy!
2007-05-13 12:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's still with this girl a year later he obviously likes her alot. Maybe find out how serious they are, if he likes you more etc etc. Its not very fair on his girlfriend either way, but if he prefers you then he owes it to her to tell her the truth now, rather than string her along anymore
2007-05-13 11:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard. You have to follow your heart. The guy you like may be happier with you instead of his chick. He has to decide that too. Talk to him and tell him he needs to dump her. If he does then go for him if he says no tell him goodbye. You gotta be selfish even if it seems mean. Either way someone is going to get hurt in this situation.
2007-05-13 11:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by hollygolightly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having respect for the girlfriend isn't continuing to plot on the situation, move on.
2007-05-13 11:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by 747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what u feel...
maybe u 2 r meant to b together...
and if not 2 bad...if the couple is meant to b a couple, then u wont b able to break them up anyway.
so go ahead.
live...
2007-05-13 11:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieurlemarquis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad to jeopordize another relationship. If they are going to break up, let it be on their own terms and then you can see if he comes to you.
2007-05-13 11:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait til him and the young lady break up on their own
2007-05-13 11:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by bsy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋