Family & Relationships - 13 May 2007

i don't like the idea of sex, to me it's disgusting.

2007-05-13 09:10:06 · 19 answers · asked by Lee Chamberlain 1 in Singles & Dating

I split up with my ex 8 years ago. He was violent towards me for a while but gained access to our son. Over the past few years things have settled and improved & recently we have been on quite good terms.
However, he is very hostile to my partner of 4 years always saying he should "stay away" from his son (its my son too!!!) Every so often he rears his head and makes threats to my partner~ last night they showed up in the pub where my boyfriend drinks & were threatening (no reason for it though)
He has not done enough for an arrest or injunction. What do I do? I am very protective of my partner- he is very special to me & doesnt deserve this treatment from what is essentially a thick yob.
I realise my ex sees him as a threat, but that doesnt excuse his behavour. I have tried to reassure him but he still "flares up"
I know its not all about me, but it makes me feel so anxious and nervy- I pray a lot but need practical advise too...

Thanks

2007-05-13 09:03:14 · 16 answers · asked by verity b 3 in Family

My boyfriend and i spent nearly a year building up a strong,loving relationship.We had been intimate,but didn’t feel the need to rush things,just taking things as it came.However, we had a big fight, and I split up with him.We both rebounded.He rebounded with an older girl,who just happened to be a girl I strongly dislike and vice versa.Around 2 weeks later,he had sex with her once when drunk,and used protection.It really upset me,however,I still loved him and we decided to try and make it work.We’ve working through things,and I believe we’ll get there.He said he completely regrets being with the other girl.I know how much he loves me.But we’ve been back together three weeks,and he recently asked me to give him oral.He hasn’t asked before,and I suspect it may to be because he did with the girl.I do want to but don’t want it to be rushed.Will ir tuin things or being us closer?He said he didn’t want to rush things,so what’s going on?

2007-05-13 08:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for years now and have only just started to realise how bad the communication is between us. He doesnt seem to like communicating much and often lives in his own bubble on the pc or games console. He doesnt have much motivation in life and we dont do alot outside of work. Obviously he isnt all to blame but i think i have just gone along with it bcos i obviously love him dearly but its getting frustrating . I would love to think that something could really change in our lives and we can move on..meaning marriage and selling our property as we need a bigger place but all these things will never be done bcos he seems happy to plod along in the same situation all the time and trying to get him to do serious stuff is a bloody nightmare..what do i do?

2007-05-13 08:54:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have sex once a month.. occasionally 3x a month. He gives pecks and hugs, but we NEVER french kiss unless we are having sex. He says he has a low sex drive, but the minute i leave the house he's looking at porn. i know where he is 24/7 so i know he's not cheating. What's going on here? What should i do? i've put on a little weight but other guys still look so i must not be that awful looking. If you really love someone is this normal behavior?

2007-05-13 08:50:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why r people so quick to say that a girl is gealous or not comfertable with herself because she thinks her boyfriend is cheating?
when half the time they r?

2007-05-13 08:44:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 08:43:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are talking on a daily basis, and she agreed to have a vacation together this summer. what can i say or do to leave a lasting impression.

2007-05-13 08:41:15 · 15 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

a month ago my friends and I were at a party and it got rated. Eleven of us were arrested and i was grounded for 3 weeks. None of my other friends are really affected by what happened and still drink everyweekend. I still wanna go out and have fun but im scared it might happen again. How can I still hang out with the same people without getting into trouble,

2007-05-13 08:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by meganx3 1 in Friends

2007-05-13 08:39:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 08:35:29 · 12 answers · asked by wildfire 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 08:34:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well heres the deal. theres this girl who i used to like about a year ago.
but then when it didnt work out my best m8 asked me if he could ask her out. I said ok.
Then they went out for a year and it didnt bother me... Until the other day i saw them kissing... I felt hurt for some reason. i thought i didnt care... What should i do??

2007-05-13 08:29:34 · 9 answers · asked by Charlie 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy ALOT..
o.k. so when i don't go completely out of my way to talk to him, he always starts a conversation with me, and flirts with me majorly. But if i do try to get his attention and start talking to him first.. he is a total jack*ss, really rude, and won't even talk to me.. i really don't get it.. can u explain this to me.. please?

2007-05-13 08:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 08:23:38 · 1 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what guidelines people followed to stop making mistakes.

2007-05-13 08:21:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-13 08:20:21 · 22 answers · asked by frank p 1 in Singles & Dating

Are Men or Women more materialistic in today's modern society?

2007-05-13 08:20:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lf obsessed she is?Or is it just the English (note I didn’t say British), Or is it just the good looking ones? Or is it just the ones I meet?

2007-05-13 08:19:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about my best friend, we do everything together and we want (or at least I want, though he has told me the same thing) to spend every moment together and the instant we separate I start missing him sooo much!!! I'm not sure if I'm in love, but If I am I would want to make it go away, I don't want to love him! Cuz I know he won't love me back and we're..I don't know, great right now! What should I do?

2007-05-13 08:17:24 · 16 answers · asked by Pinna 2 in Friends

want some drama? My 2 best friends Jenny and Tom broke up. Tom kissed Jenny's best friend Kelsey. Jenny found out and was naturally very hurt. Months later we find Jenny and Tom back together and Jenny still ruthlessly hating Kelsey. Problem is in these months and months time frame i have remained friends with both Jenny and Kelsey and i am even dating Kelsey now. Kelsey and Jenny don't talk, but Jenny still lurks on Kelsey's web pages and finds reasons to hate Kelsey more and more. What do i tell Jenny? she is fixated on hating Kelsey and perpetuating that hate. She has turned all my friends against Kelsey and i often look like a bad guy just for being her friend, much less dating her. What should i DOOOOOOO!?!!!?

2007-05-13 08:16:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i would like to know whether or not im wasting my time with some of these beezys you know

2007-05-13 08:15:19 · 16 answers · asked by ben M 2 in Singles & Dating

well theres this guy and he told me he liked me but his best friend did too. after a couple of months him and his best friend split up and i told him i liked him and i sholdve said something when he told me, we used to always talk online like best friends but never on the fone. i dont have any classes with him so i cant really talk to him in school. sometimes i see him and we kinda avoid eyecontact.....other times we just say hi. what should i do? we stopped talking online and its like...we're strangers, but i still like him and i want to know if he still likes me, what should i do!?
PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT I AM 14!

2007-05-13 08:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 08:05:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-13 08:04:38 · 10 answers · asked by Intellithug 3 in Singles & Dating

I think he is being sarcastic.Do you think we will end up divorced.

2007-05-13 07:59:48 · 26 answers · asked by pups 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you easily get all emotional? My daughter is getting married on Saturday and I know I'll come over all Mumsy and tearfull, my daughter has warned me not to get all weepy because it'll start her off, as she's as bad as me! Should I try to put a brave face on or just go with the flow? I'm really happy they're getting married as he's a great bloke, couldn't wish for better. Only hope the weather improves and the sun shines for them!

2007-05-13 07:55:04 · 16 answers · asked by clara 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I seriously dated a girl for 3 years and I knew she wanted to get married, I didnt but loved her and only wanted to be with her. Prob just being a guy, scared, etc. Either way, I thought things were fine and last August she told me she wanted to get married and not waste anymore of her life waiting. I like a IDIOT didnt marry her, I thought we would just take some time to think well. Well, she immediately reconnected with an oldboyfriend and they were married 5 months later. When I found out I tried to convince her to not marry for 1 month but she was so ANGRY at me, and did not change her mind. She has been married for 3 months and we spoke for the 1st time since the wedding last week and she told me she only got married bcs. she was desperate and not thinking well, and that she would get divorced if he GAVE HER a reason, but that she wouldnt do it bcs. she would feel too guilty. She claims she is "happy," but I doubt it. What do you think about this? What can I do? I am so sad.

2007-05-13 07:53:41 · 5 answers · asked by rickie7611 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-13 07:50:22 · 4 answers · asked by ME 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Both of us have gone through some hard times in the last few months, mentally, emotionally and physically. In fact, we both ended up with pneumonia. We each went to each other for comfort and advice and things were going fairly well all considered. But about 3 months ago, one of his friends committed suicide and the family blamed him. He started to not talk to me very much at that point. I asked him on a number of occasions if he wanted to end it with me but he won't answer that. He will answer other questions but not that. I want to help him through his problems even if it means ending things between us. But he will not say anything either way... to end the relationship... or to talk to me to work through the problem and continue our relationship. Our relationship before this was loving, thoughtful and filled with hopes and dreams from both of us. I can honestly say I care very much for this man but I don't know what to do here; show him I am there for him, leave him alone or end it.

2007-05-13 07:49:37 · 4 answers · asked by T 1 in Singles & Dating