We have sex once a month.. occasionally 3x a month. He gives pecks and hugs, but we NEVER french kiss unless we are having sex. He says he has a low sex drive, but the minute i leave the house he's looking at porn. i know where he is 24/7 so i know he's not cheating. What's going on here? What should i do? i've put on a little weight but other guys still look so i must not be that awful looking. If you really love someone is this normal behavior?
2007-05-13 08:50:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not the norm behavior for real love. perhaps he doesnt have the real love that you originally thought that he had...perhaps someone else has come into the picture, perhaps he think he may be gay.....perhaps because you gained a few pounds, he isnt interested anymore.....
if you arent feeling the relationship anymore, if you think everything is gone, the fire has burned out and theres nothing there then you should move on and not waste your time....but now of course you probably already know that a relationship will not always be hunkadora lovely you know....i mean, there will come a time where the sex life will end and alot of other things but its the love that matters
2007-05-13 08:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
key phrase, "I put on a little weight" other guys looking because they haven't had you, your bf has. Chances are he's not interested because the same thing is happening with me. I'm no longer interested in the mother of my daughter. I don't have sex with her anymore at all, and I'm always looking at porn. Look, guys look at porn, we have penises. That's going to happen so you can just chonk that one up, but my mans probably not attracted to you anymore. Look, sit him down, and tell him that you think yall should date other people, if he agrees easily... then you'll see that I'm right.
2007-05-13 08:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by v boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because 5 years is tooooo long! 5 years is longer than most marriages in America!
time for an upgrade.
2007-05-13 08:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Angelika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no,but you can get him back if you follow poits below
*change way you dress
chang your hair style
get realy short skitrs or tights
get some silk night cloths
be clean and fresh
do not argue
be cool then you will get wht you desrve
2007-05-13 09:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the weight..watch porn with him...O to completion, A..and outdoor stuff......do it soon, or someone will do it for you........
2007-05-13 08:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years too long.
Move on.
2007-05-13 08:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋