I seriously dated a girl for 3 years and I knew she wanted to get married, I didnt but loved her and only wanted to be with her. Prob just being a guy, scared, etc. Either way, I thought things were fine and last August she told me she wanted to get married and not waste anymore of her life waiting. I like a IDIOT didnt marry her, I thought we would just take some time to think well. Well, she immediately reconnected with an oldboyfriend and they were married 5 months later. When I found out I tried to convince her to not marry for 1 month but she was so ANGRY at me, and did not change her mind. She has been married for 3 months and we spoke for the 1st time since the wedding last week and she told me she only got married bcs. she was desperate and not thinking well, and that she would get divorced if he GAVE HER a reason, but that she wouldnt do it bcs. she would feel too guilty. She claims she is "happy," but I doubt it. What do you think about this? What can I do? I am so sad.
2007-05-13 07:53:41 · 5 answers · asked by rickie7611 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave her alone! You had your chance. If you keep talking to her it's only going to make her life more miserable. If you really care about this girl you will want her to be happy! You don't want to be the reason if they do divorce, she could end up hating you more in the end!
2007-05-13 08:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Misty Lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being complete assho**s the both of you. the other guy apparently treats her well and the confusion is still around merely because you still want her.
YOu blew it and should be man enough to do the right thing and wwalk away.
she needs to get her priorities right. the other man was her choice for a damming good reason.
stop being selffish and think about the other dude in the picture
2007-05-13 15:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by sweetashess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you would be much sadder if she came back to you, cause she obviously doesn't have her head screwed on straight to begin with, and doesn't know what love is! Is that what you want in a marriage? Cause I can guarantee you that you would be miserable. I think that you should count yourself lucky that she's some other guy's problem, and find one who doesn't have mental issues!
2007-05-13 14:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you asked, I think you should go away, and grow up, and leave her alone.....
2007-05-13 15:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had your chance but you blew it !
Now leave her alone to live her life.
let her be happy..............
but............ Leave yr name and no... in case ?
you never know !
2007-05-13 14:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋