Both of us have gone through some hard times in the last few months, mentally, emotionally and physically. In fact, we both ended up with pneumonia. We each went to each other for comfort and advice and things were going fairly well all considered. But about 3 months ago, one of his friends committed suicide and the family blamed him. He started to not talk to me very much at that point. I asked him on a number of occasions if he wanted to end it with me but he won't answer that. He will answer other questions but not that. I want to help him through his problems even if it means ending things between us. But he will not say anything either way... to end the relationship... or to talk to me to work through the problem and continue our relationship. Our relationship before this was loving, thoughtful and filled with hopes and dreams from both of us. I can honestly say I care very much for this man but I don't know what to do here; show him I am there for him, leave him alone or end it.
2007-05-13 07:49:37 · 4 answers · asked by T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone for a bit.......He sounds like he's got alot on his mind. I wouldn't call it quits just yet, but I would leave him alone and give him some time. Just stop calling him and trying to see him and let him come to you. maybe without you there and seeming that you are sliding away from him it will give him the incentive to either discuss the situation with you or break it off if thats what he wants without leaving you hanging on a thread. I think he just needs some time.
Good Luck
2007-05-13 07:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who claims to care for him, you have a funny way of showing it. You want him to end things and he knows it. What do you want him to say? If you really cared that much for him, you wouldn't be asking him to end things. No wonder he is screwed up, you are the one doing it to him. Nice job, no one need friends like you.
2007-05-13 14:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some time...after all he's been through, he really needs it...don't put extra preassure on him, asking about your relationship...just be there for him..without putting questions...time will tell...and will also help him understand what he really wants...good luck...
2007-05-13 14:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he needs to stop wallowing in self-pity, and that communication is very important. That if he will not communicate with you, then you may as well split, cause you can't help him to feel good if you don't get any feedback.
2007-05-13 14:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋