want some drama? My 2 best friends Jenny and Tom broke up. Tom kissed Jenny's best friend Kelsey. Jenny found out and was naturally very hurt. Months later we find Jenny and Tom back together and Jenny still ruthlessly hating Kelsey. Problem is in these months and months time frame i have remained friends with both Jenny and Kelsey and i am even dating Kelsey now. Kelsey and Jenny don't talk, but Jenny still lurks on Kelsey's web pages and finds reasons to hate Kelsey more and more. What do i tell Jenny? she is fixated on hating Kelsey and perpetuating that hate. She has turned all my friends against Kelsey and i often look like a bad guy just for being her friend, much less dating her. What should i DOOOOOOO!?!!!?
2007-05-13 08:16:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stick with kelsey she has obviosly gotten over it! Jenny still seems to be insecure about her relationship with tom she will forget over time, but i wouldnt count on them being best friends for a while!
2007-05-13 08:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by wanecreasey1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, send this story to some producer guy and this could make a really cute sitcom.
JUST KIDDING!
i think the problem is Jenny. She is definitely obsessed with hating people. That's kind of sad. it's not Kelsey's fault about what happened a long time ago. As for you, definitely stick to Kelsey's side because Jenny will probably ditch you and make fun of you like she does to Kelsey over time.
And just some more pathetic advice i hope u'll listen to:
Make sure you tell someone in your world about this problem because if they really are that serious about hating each other, there will be a fight and you'll have to answer for it.
2007-05-13 08:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Goldfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to date Kelsey, even if it means ending the relationship with the others. Jenny should be angry with Tom, but instead transfers all her anger to Kelsey. Jenny should face it.......Tom cannot be trusted. Can Kelsey? Only you can answer that.
2007-05-13 08:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by djlorir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. It's not your problem and you can't fix it. A real friend would just stay out of it and let them solve it in their own way and time-frame.
Question is: are you a good friend?
2007-05-13 08:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GET INVOOOOLVED!!
2007-05-13 08:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋