do u think if u get a divorce and remarry the sme person things will work out and the past will b forgotten?

Question

my wife and i have been thru alot we really love each other do u think its possible we can b happy again

Answer 1

I don't think anyone can answer this but you and your wife good luck

Answer 2

I know a couple people who have married, then divorced and then remarried again only to be unhappy again. You can love someone and still hate to be married to them.. Sometimes there is too much difference between you and your spouse to have a happy married relationship. Sex drives could be different, family values, pleasure activities could also be too different to have fun together. It's hard to get back to the beginning if too much space came between you 2. You can love her forever but if you both aren't on the same page in life and are hopelessly IN-LOVE wit each other you should stay friends and find someone that makes you both happier. You only have 1 life. Enjoy it and be happy as much as you can.

Answer 3

Sometimes things happen for a reason. I mean, even if deep in your heart you know it wl never work out again but you still go ahead with the vow, you wl be surprised what fate has led you to. I just found out recently about my cousin. He was remarried to the same person 3 times. After his first child was born, they got a divorce and his brother adopted his 1st kid whom was banned frm calling the own father "dad". He remarried the same person and got himself a 2nd and 3rd child. At the age of 4, the 3rd child fell down frm their apartment window and died. Then they got a divorce and remarried for the third time and got themselves another boy, the 4th child. & just last month, his 2nd child died in a hit and run accident. So now, he's only surived with the 4th child since the 1st child was not supposed to acknowledge him as "dad".

Answer 4

a guy or woman can remarry on condition that the significant different committed adultery. Say you are the spouse and the husband commits adultery. The spouse is not absolute to the husband. She is loose to remarry. however the husband who committed the adultery isn't loose to marry, as doing so reasons adultery back.

Answer 5

Whatever lead you to divorce has to be addressed before you can truly move on. Talk about it and deal with it until you are both understanding of eachother. Women talk so much because we need a full understanding of your thought process. Why you did whatever or said whatever ( or why we feel whatever).We have to understand how we got to where we are before we can TRULY move on. If you get back together without fully addressing and resolving whatever issues you had, you will end up seperated again. If you aren't honest and open with eachother, it'll never work.
Good luck

Answer 6

Don't try to forget the past, but do try to let it go. Use it as a way to be better in the future.

Sometimes when you screw up, it makes you realize how much you appreciate each other and you can resolve to change.



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Answer 7

If you grew up - yes, if the same problems exist and you don't fully deal with them - -no... It all depends upon what broke you up -- do you not get along?? did something happen in your marriage you couldn't deal with??
If you know how to communicate now -- yes, it will work - otherwise, no.. waste of time

Answer 8

when people split up, divorce, whatever...its for a good reason. People dont change, if it didnt work out the first time, its not going to work out the second, third or fourth time.

Answer 9

Sure if you both want it to work out and are willing to compromise. Maybe if you both are willing to give more than you get. Good luck.

Answer 10

Yeah it's possible. You guys are older and much wiser now.