Family & Relationships - 12 May 2007

2007-05-12 18:10:51 · 16 answers · asked by Fred 3 in Weddings

I can't get back with him because he is the type of guys who like every good-looking girl,and this was the very reason we broke up.He found another girl and told me he likes both of us and this is the thing guys always do. I know everything ,i know if i get back with him,we still won't have future,but i really like him, can not erase him from my mind.For this reason,i have turned down 3 guys who like me since we broke up. I clearly know if i keep thinking about him,a fresh life won't come to me then,but i just can't help.And what made the thing worse is he called me everytime when i was struggling and making up my mind not to see him,then ,you know ,i just gave up,all my effort went back to zero. Today,I run into him on the street,fortunely, we did something against the moral standards because he has the relationship to another girl.I know i was wrong,my life is out of control,i am not the leader in my kingdom any more.how can i get rid of him?Really need your help!

2007-05-12 18:10:42 · 8 answers · asked by Princess Fiona 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it because they are shy, or they know that its impolite to stare, or they know how to hide their feelings?? ex: a guy sees a beautiful woman but doesnt stare or pay attention but when he talks to his friends hes like" dam today i was walking and i saw the most beautiful woman ever!!"

2007-05-12 18:10:03 · 26 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be very shy and I grew up in an emotionally abusive house. I have social anxiety disorder, which I am on medication for and it seems to be working. Im also seeing a therapist about it. However, even after all of the progress I have been making, I still feel like I dont have many close friends. I love to be around people, but I have a hard time connecting with them. Ive been through depression because of this. I just feel sometimes like I am invisible, and like Im the only one who has gone through this. Has anyone else gone through this??? Did you get over it? If so, how did you overcome it?

2007-05-12 18:08:27 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Friends

2007-05-12 18:07:51 · 30 answers · asked by Skeet Skeet Champ 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend recently got a tramp stamp ( tatoo above her butt) and she showed me, and later was by my husband pulled her shirt up and was sctraching at it underneath her shirt. My husband happened to notice and said what are you doing? She instantly stopped itching and said oh my tatoo was itching...I just got it see....and bent over sticking her butt out and showed him. It was like she was waiting for him to ask, so she could show him. I don't know why but it pissed me off. Am I being weird about this?

2007-05-12 18:07:38 · 12 answers · asked by Leslie S 2 in Friends

Tonight I went out to dinner with my new girlfriend for the first time. At the end fo the night I gave her a gift. It was a picture of us two when we went to a dance together, before we were going out. I gave her a kiss then. It was my first kiss. We kissed again only on the lips.

Then I walked her to the door and gave her a huge hug. She said "give me some more" and tried to make out with me. I was surprised as I was going to give her a quick kiss tonight. I kind of turned my head away. They we said goodbye and she walked inside. Did I do anything wrong? I just had my first kiss and was not ready to make out yet. Should I do anything?

2007-05-12 18:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and I'm on myspace that night and I get a message from an ex of mine asking if its true that we broke up and that he heard it from an other ex. I said no and sent a mean message to that ex.

Friday- did see him until 3rd period! so I got the whole omg he might be kinda avoiding me. adn when I saw him during 3rd period I told him what happened that night on myspace and he said that my ex was a fag and then he asked for a piece of gum then he went to lunch. and he didn't give me hug, adnhe always gives me a hug when he leaves me. and then after I have lunch and he came out of Geometry and we saw each other he told me he had to talk to me after school. and at that point I'm hoping he's not gonna break up with me.and my BFF told me that she was gonna make sure my ex was gonna hate spanish. and he told her that my bf told him that we broke up. and she then texted me saying that.

2007-05-12 18:05:09 · 2 answers · asked by sydy 2 in Singles & Dating

we have lived together for almost 5months but every sunday he goes to his church and leave me home ( i dont have a car to go to my own church)

2007-05-12 18:04:26 · 26 answers · asked by kissandneverletgo 1 in Singles & Dating

my future mother in law is a phsyco. how can i deal with this kind of pearson is there any way i can make her realize what she is doing and how she is hurting people. 1.she hardly ever cooks
2.husband works hard very hard
3.she does not even take care of her hard working suportive husband.
4.does not know her childerens age or what grade their in "i forgot haha" thats what she says
5.curses around her kids all the time jus yelling"F&*#" all the time
6. hits her children from jus a burst of anger
7. flurts with other guys
8. when husband not around dresses with her chest sticking out.
9. does not want to come and pick her doughter up from school and just tells her to walk
10. house is a mess
11. speeds all the time and getts tickets
12. calls me insulting names behind my back and in my face
13. never apreciates anything
14. very greatty, selffish
15. wants to be the best
16.bossy
17. and much much more

she seams to have somekid of personalty disorder
13.

2007-05-12 18:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by ## 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...I met this girl, I was a bit to anctious to get into a realtionship. When have been goin out for maybe a month or so...

She turned 18 and got into a fight with her mom and got "kicked" out. She called me to see if she could stay at my house. There is no way my mother would let her. Plus I didn't want her to....

So she says she will ask my sister-in-law....before I could get to their house and tell them..."NOOO DONT DO IT" it was too late. My sister-in-law and bro said she could stay with them.

Now, I feel like the relationship has gone no where and won't go anywhere. I want to break it off. But she's stayin with my bro and that will cause some awkwardness. So I can't....

I'm trying to stay as far away as possible. But I don't like hurting people's feelings.

Do I tell her she needs to move back home and we should stop seeing eachother or what?

(this is the convo with her mom)

Her: Blah blah blah I hate you mom.
Mom: Blah blah blah Well Is that so?
Her: Yeah that is so...Blah blah blah.
Mom: Fine, Blah blah, you can get your Blah and get the blah out.
Her: Good cause I'm Blah blah blah blah moving the blah out blah blah.
* door slams *

2007-05-12 18:02:35 · 1 answers · asked by Ryan 2 in Singles & Dating

My father was a very angry Scandinavian man! My sister and I watched him beat my mother half to death almost every night. He never told me that he loved me and never hugged me saying that I would be too soft if he did. He never went to our highschool graduations but says he wants to see me graduate from Harvard in 2009 but I refuse! He hates animals and til this day I have yet to discover what ever happened to my dog Bootsie! She just came up missing oneday!
He's getting older now and says he is better and wants to do right but I don't think I'll ever love him!.......My sister wants nothing to do with him.

2007-05-12 18:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i need help on what to do. or something. i'm not even sure if this is a question.

i've known this guy for one year and recentely it's been getting more intense. he's come over to my house around 11p.m. to surprise me. then he came over last sunday and i went outside and talked to him for a while.

he keeps texting me and IMing me. at first i thought he was getting annoyed by my texts because i'd try to stir up a conversation, but i didn't text him at all tonight, then he finally did. then i didn't IM him at all, and i just got his IM.

i don't know whats wrong with me, i want him to IM/txt me but, then i don't? i'm really trying not to like him because i don't want to be dissapointed...but i can't seem to stop wanting him to talk to me. it seems everytime i get this close to a guy, i mess it up like this. i need to know how to overcome what i'm doing.

2007-05-12 18:00:49 · 21 answers · asked by jsmonkey013 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok So I have been in a completely monagamous relationship for three years. We're engaged. About two years ago I met my boyfriends roomie. He was nice and funny and he liked me but nothing happened.

On Sunday I called my bf's roomate who now has a gf for a few months to tell him I have a crush on him(told my boyfriend and he told me to go for it).
We talked and I asked the roomate to reject me so I could get over the what if feeling, he laughed it off and said we should talk later(we talked an hour before about everything but the crush and him not being able to make a woman happy and to break up with my bf, he called me pretty etc).

He is an ARIES man and I am a Libra. Why hasn't he called me yet? Why didn't he reject me? I also sent him an email telling him why I think he's a good person. Can someone help me out? I am really confused.
He went today to his gf's house like he does every weekend is this a rejection? Why didn't he just reject me on the phone?

2007-05-12 18:00:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like my parents tell me to take the trash out what will u do

2007-05-12 17:58:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know you can do this. do i need a lawyer and how much is it going to cost. if my mom is in another state does she have to be here for the court making. i dont want her to legally be my mother. im sure she doesnt want me either. if i do this do i have to put someone as my legal mother or can i jsut have my dad and thats it cause thats all i need!

2007-05-12 17:57:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been through a year of hell. I found out my now ex was having an affair, I divorced him, changed jobs, have sole custody of my son, bought and sold a house. I am tired. I have dealt with the fact that my husband of ten years left, all the adjustments of my 9 year old son, never spoke negatively of my ex in front of my son, did all the right things so my son could get through this as good as possible, now I am tired. What is next?

2007-05-12 17:56:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've never kissed anyone before so i'm scared that i won't know how to do it.

2007-05-12 17:56:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I was going out with the guy for about 4 months and then his best friend called me and told me all kinds of crap like he was cheating on me and going out smoking crack behind my back so, I believed him and broke up with him. I started to go out with the guy and he cheated with my best friend. The first guy I was going with, his best friend tells me he still loves me alot and wants me back. Is this worth my time?

2007-05-12 17:55:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come everytime I have a crush on someone and find out that they like me back, I am no longer attracted to them?

2007-05-12 17:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by buttercup 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife left me and my son for another women, i divorced her.I got my final papers in the mail making me single again..i feel hurt..sad...
lonely once again..even though she left us,and i am trying to see other women, i still have strong feelings for her.is this normal..am i the only one that feel this way ?

2007-05-12 17:54:50 · 9 answers · asked by whtmt501 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom is mentally, and physically herting me.and this isnt like a regular he said she said situation. my mom has mentall problems and shes on medication for it she has 7 kids and she treated them all like this but she treats me worse because me and my little brother are the last ones at home.she told me that she should have stoped haveing kids after she had one of my sisters and one of my brothers and that i shouldnt be born.she says that she could have been a model in new york if it wasnt for us.she calls me all kinds of name and shes even worse when she drinks what should i do some one help me is thier eny programs or eny thing i can go in thats not foster care?

2007-05-12 17:54:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a question on child support ... if parents (that wasnt married) have 2 kids together and the mom has one of the kid and the father as the other one.. how does child support work on that? is there a website or anything i can get info on about this subject.. the reason why iam asking this is mY husband and his ex are going threw this.. she is going after him for child support for years now and we r gettin letters from them saying he needs to pay this amount... but she isnt paying nothing and never has... what can we do about this

2007-05-12 17:53:31 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Zoe'sMomma♥ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad gets grouchy a lot. Is there anything I can say to make him know that he is always a grouch without offending him? It seems like he is extremely defensive if I say anything to him .

2007-05-12 17:51:47 · 16 answers · asked by Ted (Canton,OH) 2 in Family

The visitation is court ordered...What is the age the child can make a decesion if he/she wants to keep seeing the other parent??

2007-05-12 17:50:39 · 5 answers · asked by m0mmy0f3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if ur wife wanted a kid between the two of you so bad that it caused fight after fight in ur relationship and then she stopped taking birth control, got pregnant, and decided she was going to have an abortion what would you think? it was like everything to her and as soon as she knew she was pregnant she immediately said "im sick and i don't want this baby. we have to much to do with our lives? Whhhaaattt? Why the 180? she had an abortion 2 days ago. I can only think of a number of options why she turned around so quickly? See if you can figure them out. Either she is not planning to stick around or she screwed around on me. Why else would a woman that argued everyday with me about having a kid of our own change so quick? seems real fishy to me. A woman who truly loves her husband and wanted to be around i'm thinking would never want to end her pregnancy especially if that's all she was complaining about for months.

2007-05-12 17:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok how do u know?? this is there any sign, give if there is, wot sort of sign do we look for??

2007-05-12 17:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all the free samples that are being given out in the store, after that she won't be hungry (especially if you go for multiple samples at the same store or go to different stores) so no need to buy lunch/brunch/dinner. After, go to cemetary to get her some flowers and then go to laundromat for some 'people watching' and see what they are washing. Inexpensive fun day date????

2007-05-12 17:48:32 · 19 answers · asked by victorschool1 5 in Singles & Dating

One of my close-friends asked my guy-friend if hre likes me and told him I like him when I was not around. I feel kinda mad at her but at the same time i feel stupid for getting angry over that. Should I?

2007-05-12 17:48:22 · 18 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Friends

I met my current boyfriend at a party a while back. Since he lived about an hour away from me, we would talk on the phone constantly. About two months ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said yes. He is the sweetest boy in the world and I really like him too, but now I just don't have any romantic feelings towards him. I want to break up with him, but I just can't hurt him. Seriously, what am I supposed to say? I just don't feel anything between us? Please help me!

2007-05-12 17:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by starry_eyed_suprise 1 in Singles & Dating