I can't get back with him because he is the type of guys who like every good-looking girl,and this was the very reason we broke up.He found another girl and told me he likes both of us and this is the thing guys always do. I know everything ,i know if i get back with him,we still won't have future,but i really like him, can not erase him from my mind.For this reason,i have turned down 3 guys who like me since we broke up. I clearly know if i keep thinking about him,a fresh life won't come to me then,but i just can't help.And what made the thing worse is he called me everytime when i was struggling and making up my mind not to see him,then ,you know ,i just gave up,all my effort went back to zero. Today,I run into him on the street,fortunely, we did something against the moral standards because he has the relationship to another girl.I know i was wrong,my life is out of control,i am not the leader in my kingdom any more.how can i get rid of him?Really need your help!
2007-05-12 18:10:42 · 8 answers · asked by Princess Fiona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Actually,i have tried my best to forget about him.I have had intention not to pick up his phone,then he called my family number;i didn't call back him ,then he called my work place number,i still didnt call back,then he sent email which was showing he is very kind, just wanna say hi to me.And i don't have enough courage to tell him "please don't call me any more" The feeling is annoying and it sucks
2007-05-12 18:55:51 · update #1
You're continuing the relationship. You could quit if you wanted too. Ignore him, he'll get the hint.
2007-05-12 18:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be something really compelling about this guy or he is a wonderful confused person as well as you. If you are sure that you all are not getting back together then find the strength to leave his ***. Please stop as he is not truly trustworthy and there are many pretty girls who won't tell you they have HIV or even something else for that matter. You have to know that you deserve better. I don't know how old you are, but you need to seek the guidance of someone who has been rejected by morons.
2007-05-12 18:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by TargetPractice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to get it together! No man is worth the hell you are going through and he certainly doesn't soundvery appreciative of everything you're willing to give up for him. He doesn't deserve you! It won't be easy getting over him, but you have to start somewhere. Stop talking to him, try to keep busy and keep your mind off of him, and accept other offers to help you move on.
2007-05-12 18:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to fight against yourself. This battle is not with him, it's with you! You know he's no good. You know you deserve better, but you refuse to strengthen yourself! STOP!!!
When you see him, walk the other way. Cry, think about him, go insane wanting to call him, but DON'T give in!!! you have to do this. you are your worse enemy right now. Be strong!!! Only the strong survive!
2007-05-12 18:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't get over him until you've replaced him.
Stop turning down the other guys.
Get back in the game.
2007-05-12 18:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a loser, who knows how many other girls he's trying to get with. You should have more respect for yourself and move on. But nothing...he's a loser!
2007-05-12 18:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Leslie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy, BUSY BUSY!!!! you really dont want him anyways!!! Believe me, I stayed with someone for 4 years and I never should have. When we split I was in bed for two weeks and thought that I would never find anyone again. PLEASE.... lol.... when I think about it, I never wanted him.... I have someone now who loves me more than the world, someone who I dont worry about, and SOMEONE WHO LOVES ME AS MUCH AS I LOVE THEM!!
DONT SETTLE FOR LESS!
2007-05-12 18:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney & Ryan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a new man will help you to forget
2007-05-12 18:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋