Family & Relationships - 12 May 2007

Even if and when you do leave the bad boy for the nice one sometimes it comes off like settling, then you say something like " he's stable" or "he's a good provider" stuff that never matters with the ahole. Insights? Observations? Feedback? Are any of you with good guys your truly hot for? Do you still wish you could have turned the bad boy you were with before your good guy?

2007-05-12 13:38:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 31 and a mom of two. He is 39 and has a kid. He says that he likes me and wants to be my friend and see if it goes somewhere. We are just friends. He obviously likes me... it is very obvious in his manner, eyes and the way he is around me. He wants to be friends because he thinks it could become more. I am not like that at all. Either you think I am worth the risk or not. At least think I am worth it enough to date me casually and take a risk. I want to spend the rest of my life with someone. I spent 6 years of my life waiting for men that I love and now believe that if it is meant to be, it will happen without anyone resenting the other for waiting around. I am not interested in having 'guys friends'. I dont' do that well. And I am not introducing my kids to single guys. So I just don't do guy friends. To me, if we are not dating, at least casual. Then you are wasting my time away from my kids. Why 'just friends'. We are ALL scared. But isn't the potential of love worth the risk?

2007-05-12 13:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it has to be a woman

2007-05-12 13:35:55 · 39 answers · asked by ben d 2 in Singles & Dating

ok now i REALLY like this guy and i think about him alot. but my best friend likes him too. but i don't know how much she REALLy does. so yeah this guy likes me enough to ask me out, but apparently he likes my friend too. and me and my friend talked about this but we just end up saying no u can have him, no u take him. or i want you to be happy so i won't go out with him. and idk who he likes more! plz help me!! oh and plz make it an answer where EVERYONE is happy if possible. :-] spanks!

2007-05-12 13:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by Freckles 2 in Singles & Dating

How did you know that the one you chose to marry was "the one"? How did you guys meet? Tell me about it :D

2007-05-12 13:30:30 · 20 answers · asked by McLovin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 16 and am frustrated because I've never had a boyfriend. I'm pretty, blonde, thin, smart and the nicest, most compassionate person you'd ever meet, but I am very quiet and that may be one of the reasons I've never had a boyfriend. But I just get upset because I don't know why a guy dosen't come up to talk to me or do I just have to wait until I'm out of High School? Please help!

2007-05-12 13:27:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 13:23:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband took me to CC's for our anniversary! HELP!

2007-05-12 13:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-12 13:21:09 · 15 answers · asked by Billy Dowson 1 in Singles & Dating

My little sister always bugs me, my mom is always on my back about the smallist things, and i'm at the point to want to move with a friend. I'm an honor roll student but I must amidt at times I have an attitude. I see myself as a person with a bright future and I just wanna know why me. My friends usually tell me i'm the advice giver bit right know I need advice. I know that I love my mom and she may be under some stress because she's a single parent but hey i'm under stress to. Please tell me which way I should go and why my mom is always on my back.

Happy Mothers Day 2 all of the Moms U're what keeps the world going.

2007-05-12 13:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by Cutie P 1 in Family

2007-05-12 13:19:09 · 9 answers · asked by mrcarl92807 3 in Singles & Dating

and now she decides to look my way..heard from people she is with someone..i dont know what to do.im having alot of mixed emotions now

2007-05-12 13:18:48 · 5 answers · asked by aloof 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with this guy for almost three years. We've broken up, taken month-long breaks, and always end up back with eachother. I thought that he wanted me back as much as I wanted him, but lately I am not so sure. He has been doing things behind my back. NOT MAYJOR THINGS, but lying about little things that make me wonder. He bought himself a cell phone yesterday, but last week he said we would get a shared plan together. I found it, and he said that he wasn't going to tell me about it because he doesn't want me calling him all the time. Today is my bithday, and although he is completely aware, he doesn't care. He even told me that I shouldn't make such a big deal out of birthday's, and they're just another day. He doesn't seem to want to devote ANY time to me, not even on my birthday! I wouldn't consider myself high-maintiance, but he just doesn't seem to want me around anymore. What do you think?

2007-05-12 13:18:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my baby sister was in the army she got married to a guy in the army and decided to go awol i havent seen her in about a month but i do kinda know where she is well i called the army and told them what i knew they have sent someone there to find her now my question is did i do the right thing

2007-05-12 13:10:11 · 22 answers · asked by sara24 2 in Family

Have you ever liked someone or was interested in someone and when you told your friends they thought you were crazy or that that person wasn't good looking? (or some other reason)

2007-05-12 13:09:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have a guy friend who is in his 50's. He has a live in girlfriend that he says he is not in love with but has been with for 7 years. We have been friends since last year and we talk constantly on the computer. (He's a musician and rarely home.) We have great conversations and are physically attracted. Sometimes he talks sex, but I shoot him down and he changes the subject. We have had plenty of opportunities to have sex, but he always backs away from it. We still talk inappropriately, and we used to cuddle in public, but not anymore. We went out shopping last week and even though he called his girlfriend his wife, he still grabbed my hand when we walked in the store. My question is, what does he want with me? If he's got one thing on his mind, how come he won't allow sex? Does he want more? Is he just talking to me to get off? We are very close friends and we listen to each other's problems, and I don't want to ruin that. If any guys can help me I'd appreciate it!

2007-05-12 13:07:29 · 21 answers · asked by Runaway 2 in Singles & Dating

Do Yahoo have a free dateing name where single people can meet other single people?

2007-05-12 13:06:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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I feel ugly because no guy has ever asked me out. Please tell me what you think. I would appreciate it if you could tell me your age and if you are a boy or a girl.

2007-05-12 13:03:27 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i ask a question about an hour ago say that i know that my mom is having sex.every one told me to talk to her.well i tried and it didnt work she eblamed me for being nosy about her sex life.she isint listening to anything that i am saying.we were going to go on our boat for mothers day and her boyfriend was gonna come.i told her that i want to stay home alone because i wont see her boyfriend(cause every time i look at them i can help but picture the having sex) she said that i can stay home and that i have to go.i told her that she is going to have to kick down the door cause i am not leaving my room till they are gone. i dont know wut to do because i cant face them. she is making me so mad i dont have any body.my dad and i are not getting along either and i only have one friend who hasnt cal me back. my parents dont care about me just them selves.i dotn have any where i can go
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2007-05-12 13:01:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he keeps flirting with girls and sitting nxt to them and even ditches me sometimes the girl he flirts with the most he always hangs out with should i be worried?

2007-05-12 13:00:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 12:59:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I'm 5'9 and I'm seeing a guy who is a little over 5'4. He is really great, but we get a lot of laughs for the height difference. Should I keep dating him and put up with the jokes from my friends and family or just be friends?

2007-05-12 12:57:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are both well-educated and come from solid families, but we are also both divorced. He often accuses me of not understanding his position and troubles as a Chicano professional; I try to be sympathetic, but when it seems to lie direct blame on me as a white person, I get unreasonably defensive.

2007-05-12 12:54:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I feel like a whiner, but I am feeling really hurt! My 7 year old son and my husband are the BEST of friends. They don't purposefully leave me out, but I feel like a 3rd wheel in almost every activity. I sometimes wonder if they would notice if I wasn't here...Oh wait, as soon as their underwear drawers were empty, they would scratch their heads and say "where's mom????" Any thoughts on how to get past this and get involved with the men I love??????

2007-05-12 12:51:42 · 7 answers · asked by Michele O 1 in Family

what do i do if someone acused me of stealing their stuff? i have a skateboard that i took apart and put the trucks on a different skate board. And one of my friends friend is acussing me of stealing them from him and i didnt. he told his mom and dad. and that all happed today and they are looking at me funny. he said that his skateboard was stolen about 2 months ago. but i didnt steal it, WHAT should i do?

2007-05-12 12:49:31 · 14 answers · asked by HELP ME!!! 1 in Friends

2007-05-12 12:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by the d 6 in Family

Me and my girlfriend love each other deeply...and im pretty sure she feels the same way...but she just doesn't seem affectionate..like at school...and we dont appear to be dating....but after school...like at her house...she's in my arms...and she kissed me for the first time 2 days ago...so at times i feel confused about are relationship...Am i being too ancy....or should i look into this...thanks in advance

2007-05-12 12:47:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone experianced being hit on by a cousin. I was 13 and last summer in Mexico so many cousins were hitting on me and my aunts were asking me if I was interested in getting married with them!!!!! I was disgusted! Anyone else expriance this???

2007-05-12 12:47:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so there is this guy at school that i really like. and we flirt like every day 4th pd. i want to ask him out but i am affraid if i do he will say no then it will be akward to be with him 4th pd. what do i do?

2007-05-12 12:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by messytrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 12:46:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce