Me and my girlfriend love each other deeply...and im pretty sure she feels the same way...but she just doesn't seem affectionate..like at school...and we dont appear to be dating....but after school...like at her house...she's in my arms...and she kissed me for the first time 2 days ago...so at times i feel confused about are relationship...Am i being too ancy....or should i look into this...thanks in advance
2007-05-12 12:47:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont take she loves u literally, but how long have u been together probably not long since she kiss u for th first time two days ago....... she could be nervous of her friends reactions to her dating u, ask her about, be cool so she doesnt take offece to u asking goodluck
AirsoftDude
2007-05-12 12:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by AirsoftDude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a couple of things that could be going on. To begin she might be very shy. But that doesn't mean that you both have to appear not to be dating. Try walking her to some of her classes. Walk close enough, that would give your peers the hint that something is going on. I understand that she might not like to french kiss in public but If that simple gestured bothers her then she might not feel the same way you feel. If she really likes you being with you should not be a problem UNLESS there are ex's/ Friendship drama and wants to protect the relationship. But sounds like the relationship is fresh so give it time. If it keeps on bothering you, speak to her and let her know how you feel. Ask her questions and listen to what she has to say!
2007-05-12 13:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you're young by the way you're telling this story - and that's exactly the reason why she's acting this way - you guys are only teenagers! Usually around that age all you're doing is playing house... I think you two should just wait until you're older to try to get into a serious relationship.
2007-05-12 12:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just shy in front of her friends to be with you. Are you trying to show off that she is your girlfriend?
By the way she is doing the right thing by keeping your relationship out of school so your studies don't get affected.
2007-05-12 12:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tourang B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how me and my ex were. We'd act like regular old friends at school and save the sexual stuff for later on our own time. I say, she may not like the idea of PDA--and chances are, it's not you she's embarrassed of. Some people just don't like showing their love in front of other people, and it sounds like she falls in to that category. If it still bothers you, ask her about it but don't make it seem like a huge deal. <3
2007-05-12 12:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about what she thinks of PDA. [Public Display of Affection] Maybe she just doesn't like the whole world knowing about all her personal things. & there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-05-12 12:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by OutPatientProbablyMonkey00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be shy about PDA (public display of affection), in which case she doesn't love but likes you.
2007-05-12 12:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either into not publicly displaying affection or she is trying to keep your relationship a secret.
2007-05-12 12:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's anything like me, she doesn't like PDA. I know I don't like kissing or being close with my guy when we're in public. I like my privacy. That's probably what it is.
2007-05-12 12:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just shy. She doesn't want to be kissing on you in public. She wants what you both have to stay between you both.
2007-05-12 13:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋