he keeps flirting with girls and sitting nxt to them and even ditches me sometimes the girl he flirts with the most he always hangs out with should i be worried?
2007-05-12 13:00:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him. You can do better than that.
2007-05-12 13:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok first of all you're 13, and not that there's anything wrong with dating at that age, you have to realize that maturity is an issue. also, boys tend to mature slower to hes probably much less mature than you and therefore maybe not as ready for a relationship (a real one, not one where you just have "fun" all the time lol) as you are. the fact that he ditches you to hang out with other girls shows this and honestly at your age you shouldnt need to be worrying about whether your bf is cheating on you! wait till high school for that! i think that the best way to handle this would be to just talk to him and let him know that it bothers you. nothing with get done if you don't communicate you'r worries. and if he blows it off, then he clearly isn't bf material anyway and you'd be better off w/o him. Good luck!
2007-05-12 13:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by drummer girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im 13 i never dated but i think he is i have alot of friends with that problem u should talk to him or when he is in bathroom and u are at his house look in his phone/adress book lol so i would dump him yet he may just be talking to the girls
2007-05-12 13:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, you're 13 and you'll meet a hundred different guys before you turn 18. trust me, you don't want to start off your adult life being self conscious or insecure. it's time for fun and enjoying yourself, if it gets into a serious relationship and then he cheats then it will stick with you and subsequently harm the next relationship.
i'm not sure if you got all that but in short... dump him, he's a creep, you'll meet someone much better for you
all the best
XXX
2007-05-13 10:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he's cheating on you, but he is being very disrespectful. The most important thing in first relationships is respect. You need someone who you can learn from, someone who you can have mutual respect with so you can learn how real relationships work. A guy who doesn't treat you well can only harm your self esteem.
2007-05-12 13:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica LeAnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol im 13 too and i have a bf that's what happen 2 me so i talked 2 him about it and he said that he didn't mean it bah bah bah SO b4 u do anything just talk 2 him about it and dont get mad just ask him and try not 2 get him to think that u dont trust him cuz if there is no trust in a relationship u might break up
2007-05-12 13:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH...Get over yourself already. No you have no worries, he is just being human.
Your 13.....what possible need could you have for a commited relationship at this time.
This is the period of you life (and your BF) that you should be seeking out others. So that you may have something to compare your "soulmate" to.
How can you possibly know/understand what the "perfect" guy is, if you only date one for your entire life.
2007-05-12 13:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up with him. You're too young to date a guy like that on a long term basis. Let him learn the hard way that that is not acceptable behavior.
2007-05-12 13:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
really, i dont think he is being true. u should tlk to him about it. im the same age and i am so taking a break from guys cause theyu r never true. they r just weird at this age. i would serioulsy move on. guys r weird. so tlk to him and move along hunn. hes not true
im sooo sry
2007-05-12 13:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by xo3cheersxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is too young kiddo...........Most kids that age don't know the true meaning of a relationship. Take it one day at a time. Soon you will find a solution by doing something else
2007-05-12 13:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by hipkid65 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
your way to young to be dating and he is as well. thats why he is not taking the relationship as seriously as you. no 13 year old boy can take anything seriously. he may be cheating if he is not cheating on you now he will be doing it sooner or later. get rid of him
2007-05-12 13:05:30 · answer #11 · answered by UW2010 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋