me mom is having sex(question 2)?

Question

ok well i ask a question about an hour ago say that i know that my mom is having sex.every one told me to talk to her.well i tried and it didnt work she eblamed me for being nosy about her sex life.she isint listening to anything that i am saying.we were going to go on our boat for mothers day and her boyfriend was gonna come.i told her that i want to stay home alone because i wont see her boyfriend(cause every time i look at them i can help but picture the having sex) she said that i can stay home and that i have to go.i told her that she is going to have to kick down the door cause i am not leaving my room till they are gone. i dont know wut to do because i cant face them. she is making me so mad i dont have any body.my dad and i are not getting along either and i only have one friend who hasnt cal me back. my parents dont care about me just them selves.i dotn have any where i can go
read this it will make sense
.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ai9acDvhl79AEQTCFinx5dm_7

please read the other question too...it will make more sense thanx and sorry about the length

i dont want to hear get over it.... i cant READ THE OTHER QUESTION

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ai9acDvhl79AEQTCFinx5dm_7BR.?qid=20070512145855AAfCQ6C

and i dont care about the fact that she is having sex i just dont wana know about it and know that i do know i dont want to see them...ii dont know how to handle this

i understand that sex is normal but if u read the other question you will see that

Answer 1

yes divorce can be hard on a child....it hit me hard when my mom left my *ahem* father. but i could see after a while that it was better for her and eventually i even agreed w/the other people and said she was right for leaving.

about her having a bf. you just need to see that someone else makes her happy. and if your dad is a father and not a dad (meaning if your dad is anything like my father) then your mom made the right decision.
it might just take time. as you get older you will understand that marriage does not always work out and its ok for a parent to be with someone else other than the childs dad/mom.

as long as shes paying attention to you then it is good. it sounds like she is for the most part so i will say no more about that. but maybe she should also understand that the divorce is hard on you. tell her whats bothering you and that you want to talk about how youre upset that she is not together w/your dad anymore.

like i said you can tell her that youre upset but just dont keep bugging her about it. if youre really bothered ask your mom to take you to a therapist or something. therapists can be really helpful. my moms therapist helps her out w/her problems. i used to go to a therapist, it kinda helped.
but the main thing is when you get older you WILL understand. you might even get married have some kids and get a divorce..later on find a new bf then your kids could be upset at you. so dont stress your mom out about this. put yourself in her place. she doesnt want to talk about it, then she doesnt have to. she is an adult and its her sex life so its ok for it to be private.

Answer 2

Look I hate to put it this way but think of it on the reverse. If your mom either caught you or found out you were having sex how would she take it? Remeber to ask to ask yourself in a few years when she asks you about it and how you tell her it is none of her business. You need to stop obsessing about this.
Adults have sex, I understand that you are uncomfortable with the idea of your parents getting that intimate with someone that is a stranger to you. However what if her man and she become serious, really serious are you going to cause a wedge to come btwn you and your mom or her and her boyfriend?
Your mom is right her sex life has nothing to do with you. There is such a thing as privacy, you need to respect hers.
Also it is Mother's Day, do not ruin it by your one track mind. Just be grateful that your mother is happy after a divorce.

Answer 3

My mom had 2 women then a boy. My mom in regulation had 3 boys. My husband and that i've got had 2 boys. What gender toddler you have is in line with which sperm reaches the egg first, not genetics.

Answer 4

Your situation is relevant to my previous situation back in the young days... Whenever it would be bedtime, I would ask Mom if I could sleep with her just so Dad won't sleep with her. I was approximately 10 years old back then. And my father would get really upset, while Mom would laugh mysteriously.

Every time I saw mom and dad together I would think of them having sex, which I thought was nasty and horrible. I would do my best not for Mom to sleep with Dad.

Then eventually while life matured I begun to think different. I was no longer concerned that much, but of course the feeling was there.

Then one night I told Mom about this one girl I really liked and how we kissed and that I wanted her to be my girlfriend.

Mom said, " That's awesome you found a girl hat you like. It is also funny how you kissed that girl but you don't want your Mom to kiss your Dad." Right there I realized how mean I was. Then Mom said, " Someday she is going to want kids with you, but I assume you won't have sex with her because you don't want your father to have sex with me."

I thought about what Mom said for a week then finally decided to set my Mom free.

There is no solution to your proiblem other than natural nature development. Allow your life to change while you grow. You will think different.

I hope this helps. bye bye

Answer 5

can't get to the other q but, i'm a little confused. how is it that you know about it? do they make a lot of noise? sometimes that happens. we all go through it. yeah, it sucks to think our parents have sex with each other or with someone else but, it's really none of your business. you can't tell your mom not to have sex and perhaps it's your own embarrassment which is making it hard to face your mom. you need to let it go and get over it.

Answer 6

your mom can have sex if she wants to. she is an adult. your parents are no longer together. so this is her RIGHT. i'm sorry but you'll just have to get over it. it's none of your business. you have a lot of maturing to go through.

Answer 7

you really need to lay off your mom, she is an adult and her sex life is her business. BTW how exactly do you think you came to be here on earth? That's right , Mom's not new to this game.

Answer 8

get over it. kids have to deal with this all the time. i hate when my parents ride. sorry u gonna have to get over it. sorry sweetie,

BUT, pay her back later on. have ur music on loud at nite

when you get grown and have a husband, when she comes in for the holidays, make sure u ride him as loud as you can. you hear that? AS LOUD AS YOU CAN!!!!

that'll make breakfast the next morning awkward!

Answer 9

What do you expect? Your mom is old enough and mature enough to be having sex, and you will understand when you are having sex!

Answer 10

your mother has the right to have sex. get over yourself.