Family & Relationships - 12 May 2007

2007-05-12 11:50:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was walking to my aunts house and i left w/ the bus ppl. as i was coming up the crosswalk i saw my ex's bus coming up the road and i saw a girl i knew that rode his bus and i waved at her then i looked back down and then i heard something thump and my ex was flipping me off through the window. why is he acting like im shyt. b/c when he broke up w/ me he said he wanted to be friends but has acted like i dont even exist. wat do i do?!?!?!?!?!?

2007-05-12 11:49:53 · 6 answers · asked by sec_cogley 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok i like this cute funny girl named Alex but she's shy….we talk allot on yahoo because she is busy with her job and life i told her i liked her she's cool with that and I have made an impression on her with my talents not on purpose though i am not a show off. she told me she wants to meet in-person more i agreed we need to do that any way she's very shy in-person and kind of closed off though. So how can i tell she is interested she posted a interesting comment in response to my Blog i was writing a poem and the verse was "why can you feel the way i do" she left a comment in response to it saying "why cant you just see the truth in front of you" how can i tell if she is interested in me and wants me to ask her out we just met a few weeks ago well almost a month ago and are getting to know each other better can some one tell me the things a shy girl will do to get your attention and let you know she feels the same way about you please help :) ????

2007-05-12 11:48:56 · 13 answers · asked by Paul B 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i already posted a question but yea myspace is da problem wit me and my boyfriend i broke his password and i found out that he has been flirting wit other girls and gettin their phone numbers and **** and i did lock him out his account and he got so angry wit me and so i decied to give it back to him cuz for one he has two pages he has a music page and a regular page and i had da password to his music page but i couldn't find out the password to his regular page so it really wasnt gone make a difference and i asked him to delete his page to make our relationship better i don't mind deleting mines cuz to me he is more important than myspace but he wuz like he can't delete his page cuz of his music and sh*t and i think thats a bunch of bull, i do so much for him, we don't stay together or anything but i basically take care of him cuz he doesnt work, and told him if he had a damn job he wouldn't have time to get on myspace cuz i sure in da hell don't i only get on there 1 every 2weeks

2007-05-12 11:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by sexichica 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you initate it? Was it quick or a long kiss? Was there anything special about it, besides being your first kiss? What's your story about it?

2007-05-12 11:44:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help me!!! I'm crying upset and not sure WHAT to do!!!

My boyfriend and I had plans for a week to hang out on Friday. Thursday night my best friend in the entire world Mark whom I've known since my freshman year of high school so
(6 years now) just came home from college. He really wanted to see me and I haven't seen him since we were home for Christmas break!

I phoned my boyfriend and asked him if we could reschedule and go on our date on Saturday night. He got a bit upset and told me he was angry at me for breaking plans and that he had a frat party to go to Saturday night. When I realized he had plans Friday night I agreed to see Mark on Saturday and see my boyfriend Friday night.

Literally 20 min. before I was supposed to be at his house my boyfriend sent me a text message asking me if we could reschedule because he did not want to stay over night at this party Saturday and there was another party that his best friend was hosting Friday night. (to be continued)

2007-05-12 11:44:14 · 2 answers · asked by LiLPinkCherries972 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-05-12 11:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He works at a tire recycling place. And says his boss called him this afternoon to 'meet' the truck that got delayed on the way here. Last night he went out to dinner with his mother and her friend.

2007-05-12 11:43:20 · 25 answers · asked by inquizitive 1 in Singles & Dating

Because the guy I'm dating only likes to talk on the phone for about 5 minutes. And it's not like we have nothgin to talk about, we allways do!

2007-05-12 11:42:21 · 4 answers · asked by Juls 2 in Singles & Dating

how come random guys always stare at everygirl they see passing by?
just to check them out...well thats stupid. if u already have a gurlfriend and all..

2007-05-12 11:41:56 · 30 answers · asked by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

And what if you calt him twice but he did not have sex with thim? and when u go to dump him he begges you not to and he say im sorry. BUT i dont no if he is still doing it .

2007-05-12 11:41:32 · 4 answers · asked by emily 2 in Singles & Dating

I've worked for him for a year and a half. We mistakingly kissed one night and since then it's all he can think about. I've told him time after time to ignore it, forget about it, it was a mistake, and that the entire idea is just stupid. He doesn't agree. He put it all on the table and told me that this has never happened to him, he's completely fallen for me, I drive him crazy, and that he feels as though life has thrown him a curve ball. He asked me if I'm interested. Although I somewhat am, I over and over and confidently told him that this is just stupid and to get over it.

Since then, I cannot get his words out of my head. He's the first thought of mine when I wake up and the last at night. I do like him, but I can't tell whether I like him now because he likes me or because of his authoritative role as my boss. This is so hard since i see him every day. I told him this will all go away, but I'm now starting to think it may not.

Please help.

2007-05-12 11:41:30 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of 4 years married another guy 3 mos ago. Im a 29 yearold man and met her overseas back in 2002 when I was living there and we were together for one year there. In 2004 after many unsuccessful attempts of her trying to get a VISA to come to the U.S., she got a marriage visa and came to the U.S. After a few months i freaked out, had a lot of doubts due to the pressure of the visa, so I changed my mind and she went back home. She suffered alot and was very embarassed at what happened. We reconciled and since 2005 I have changed my mind 2 other times to get married.This girl stayed with me throughout EVERYTHING and I FINALLY I felt ready to marry her.I cant explain, I just knew i was ready so I returned 4 months ago to marry her on the spot. At that point she told me she was engaged to marry another guy. This is SOOO sad. I finally really wanted to get married, and she didnt wait!
I dont blame her, I am just sick to my stomach. What can I do to try to recover from this?

2007-05-12 11:40:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

right this is a kinda long story but, there's this guy at my dancing group and he's really cute n we're kind of together now but no one at dancing can know and i want to know how to make him really want me, do you have any flirting tips or anything i can do at dancing and / or just in general? inot being modest but i know i'm quite 'sexy' as he puts it i just need help to work with lol thanks!!! xxxx

2007-05-12 11:38:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to hear what males have to say about this.

2007-05-12 11:38:34 · 16 answers · asked by lexxy l 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 11:37:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Imagine if your boyfriend (girlfriend... or for some, you can go as far as husband, wife) cheated on you for about 1 year and some months, and you finally found about it. And not only did you find out about it, but you had a talk with the girl he was cheating with, and she too had no idea about the cheating. And to top it all off, he had a son and his future wife pregnant. Neither both girls knew about you, and you didn't know about them 'till you found out.

Now the question is: will you try to some way get revenge on him/her? After he led you on believing that he loved you and wanted a future for months (without harming the future wife or kids, since they don't live together, they are 'thinking' of marriage for the kids). Or will you just let it go and move on?

Tell me why or why not.
The questions may not reflect my real life, so don't bother saying "you should do this and that.." I'm only asking what would you do and why.
Thanks

2007-05-12 11:33:38 · 20 answers · asked by Iceshowers 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I used to cut myself, and she found out not very long ago. She thinks that someone has to be psychologically ill to intentionally hurt themselves, and she knows I'm not mentally ill or anything, so she thinks that me cutting is self-indulgent.

I know I can't make her understand. I don't think u can fully understand it unless you've done it unfortunately. The problem is that she wants to check my legs now for cuts, and when I show her, she says things like "you're gonna get scars!" and "people will see these and know you're a cutter!"

I know i can't make her understand, but she's told me herself that she feels no pity towards me at all. This is something that I feel really stupid getting involved with, and shes not helping at all. I want her to understand that this is something that I'm struggling with. I feel like if i try to open up to her, i'll come out as disgusting to her. What should I do?

2007-05-12 11:33:37 · 17 answers · asked by dumdeedum 2 in Family

2007-05-12 11:30:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all i want is somebody to care about me and would want to cuddle with me whenever i felt low.. does anybody else have this wanting?

2007-05-12 11:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by xoxocean 3 in Singles & Dating

i live in america, and i have a cousin that lives in switzerland hes like 28 years old, i havent talked to him for like 20 years so i dont know where he lives or what his number is. is there anyway where i can find out where he lives and stuff on the internet. using something free. i know what his IP address is.

2007-05-12 11:29:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm going out with my first boyfriend and we dont live really close so we talk on the phone alot. but the problem is that im quiet and dont talk much, so often we just don't talk which isn't very comfertable. Any suggestions on what to do?

2007-05-12 11:27:21 · 5 answers · asked by c d 1 in Singles & Dating

We are not Catholic but my son goes to Catholic school. In his religion book, which I was reading, it described what an annulment meant. The church will grant an annulment for a marriage that has ended legally in divorce if the Church tribunal determines that the marriage vows were invalid from the begining - where one or both persons were not able to make a valid vow.

My friend's sister was married for almost 17 years with two kids. Her husband & her got a divorce. She met someone else a year or so later who would not marry her unless she got an annulment, which the Church granted - for a price I might add. The kids were very upset as were the rest of the family. It seems funny that after all that time, the Church can just say they were never legally married. What does that say about the kids, now 17 and 13. Bastards? Doesn't seem right to me.I can see after a year or 2 with no kids but even then, how can you prove you were not able to make a valid vow & what does that mean?

2007-05-12 11:24:47 · 10 answers · asked by lilith663 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-12 11:23:03 · 18 answers · asked by Black 4 in Singles & Dating

Been knowing my BF for 2 years; officially been together for 6 months. I've asked him to go to BBQ, party, birtyday party, etc with me millions of times. He has truned me down EVERY SINGLE TIME. all of my friends and family know that I'm in a relationship, but they never get to see him. He's only met some ppl by accident. either he was at my place when they came, or he had to pick me up from somewhere and they were there. Even then, he's very distant and will say hi and rush me to leave. He says that he feels like I try to "show him off" but that is not the case. I just simply get tired of attending things and im the only person there without my bf. everyone always asks abt him. he just simply does not like to meet people and says that its not fun being in crowds. But he's fine being in crowds that he knows. when we go to his family's house, i do not sit in the car, i come inside. him on the other hand does not. What do i do? i'm tired of arguing abt this every other week!

2007-05-12 11:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm going out on a movie date tonight with a girl that i just met 5 days ago. i havent dated for almost a year (last time was when i was 14). i need to know what to talk about after the movie. any suggestions??

2007-05-12 11:18:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 2-3 casual dates, with limited intimacy (maybe a kiss goodnight), some men are all set to jump into a relationship with me, wanting to see me alot & meet their friends etc.The same scenario happens again & again. Of course I can think it is my charm & beauty...LOL.....but I am not that vain. (I also don't want a committed relationship at this stage of my life, & I make it known up front.) Is this a sign of a very needy person? A guy thing? I have found it better to just not respond to the phone calls, instead of being honest & telling them I am not interested beyond friendship.. because when I am honest, their ego is so bruised, they insult me & it makes me feel like a bad person.......why should I feel this way, just because they don't interest me? How would it best be handled?

2007-05-12 11:18:06 · 5 answers · asked by MOKKI-JO 1 in Singles & Dating

what did i do wrong please tell me!!! VERY UPSET!
PLEASE READ!!!

My girlfriend and I were supposed to hang out Friday night. We had planned this a week in advance! She phoned me Thursday night and said her best guy friend just got home from college and she would like to see him Friday and asked if her and I could reschedule on Saturday.

I got a bit upset and said no we had plans for Friday night you aren't going to do that to me. I also told her that I had a party to go to Saturday...my brother is graduating college and his frat. was having a huge party. So i wanted to go. She said that was fine and she would just make plans with her friend from college on Saturday since i would not be around.

Well, Friday around 2:30 I saw my good friend Eddie and Eddie was having a house party Friday night I don't hang out with Eddie all that much he's my boy. And Saturday was off because my brother did not want me there

(to be continued) PLEASE READ THE REST AS WELL

2007-05-12 11:15:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy that I absolutely adore, more than anyone. I love him so much but sometimes he doesn't think that I love him as much as he loves me. His past relationship I believe has had a lot of effect on him. He was with this girl for about 2/3 years on/off & they were always close & last year she commited suicide. At the time that happened he was in this relationship with me. Basically he sometimes feels like he's going to lose me or that he's scared that he will but I don't know why when I always reasure him because I know he needs it. I just really don't know what he's trying to say. I'm spilling my heart of to this guy & I'm willing to do anything & everything for him & for our relationship to progress. I asked him what I was doing wrong & he said that I wasn't doing anything wrong, I know I'm not doing anything wrong but then again I feel like I am. He keeps on playing these head games with himself & I just don't know what more I can do.. Help

2007-05-12 11:05:58 · 18 answers · asked by Brittny B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sisters husband is always hitting on me. he was tried to kiss me on the lips in front of my sister. he always asks me to take a shower with him, he calls me daily to just say hi to his "beautiful girl" as he calls me. how do i get this to stop. i use to live with my sister i don't anymore and she gets all mad at me when i try to confront her about her husband behavior

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my sister has to kids that i love dearly and enjoy going ove there to spend time with just the kids but i don't like when my brother in law is home because he always tries to touch me

2007-05-12 10:53:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family