He works at a tire recycling place. And says his boss called him this afternoon to 'meet' the truck that got delayed on the way here. Last night he went out to dinner with his mother and her friend.
2007-05-12 11:43:20 · 25 answers · asked by inquizitive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmmm, I'd say it might be time to check it out. But, before you do, think about what your reaction will be. Maybe you don't really want to know. Don't check unless you intend to show some backbone, cause it'll just end up letting him know he can play you.
2007-05-12 11:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, it's not "healthy" to be in a relationship with someone that you cannot trust. Sometimes it's not even that you can't trust someone, it's that you're a little insecure and paranoid. With that said, what I would do, is call over there and ask to speak to him. If that isn't possible, then yeah, I would go and check if he's there. But don't let him know you're checking on him, bring him something to eat, in case he got hungry. It will look like a sweet gesture.
2007-05-12 19:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There seems to be some trust issues for some reason. I am a firm believer in "gut feeling" if you need to go check on him do it. It may make you feel better but be prepared to act on the fact he lied and be ready to decide if he has what will you do. Do you have caller ID? check the phone. Good Luck
2007-05-12 18:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by someones friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, sounds like you dont trust him.Why date someone you dont trust?If he is where he says he is how is that going to make you feel and if he finds out your always checking up on him if he is being honest how do you think thats going to make HIM feel? Why dont you call him and ask if he would like you to bring him some dinnner?If he gets nervous and starts making excuses then something may be up,Unless he is only going to be there for like an hour or so then come to your place.
2007-05-12 18:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a good chance his boss needed an extra hand. If you don't think he actually went to dinner with his mom the call the mom ask how dinner was, then you will know if he's cheater. but be carefull you don't wanna be labled the jeliouse g/f
2007-05-12 18:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound so trusting! If you want to come of as a paranoid phycho who never believes what her boyfriend says, then by all means go check on him.
You need to decide if you trust this person or not. If you don't, then dump him and find someone that you can trust.
2007-05-12 18:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit posessive really.
If he's cheated on you before then yeh you MIGHT just have some reason to be suspicious.
But if he's never done anything wrong before then I think he should dump you for not trusting him.
Jealous, posessive people can never hold on to a decent relationship.
2007-05-12 18:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by jojo5050 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he is doing you wrong, the truth will come out into the open. Just be normal and keep your priorities in order. You may be over worried for nothing at all!
2007-05-12 18:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Douglas W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you know the answer to your own question. If you think there is something fishy going on, more than likely there is. Go check it about but be ready fot what you may see!
2007-05-12 18:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have trust issues. Snooping is not a good thing, but trust issues are worse. Deal with the real issue and if he is not trust worthy, move on.
2007-05-12 18:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋