Ok i like this cute funny girl named Alex but she's shy….we talk allot on yahoo because she is busy with her job and life i told her i liked her she's cool with that and I have made an impression on her with my talents not on purpose though i am not a show off. she told me she wants to meet in-person more i agreed we need to do that any way she's very shy in-person and kind of closed off though. So how can i tell she is interested she posted a interesting comment in response to my Blog i was writing a poem and the verse was "why can you feel the way i do" she left a comment in response to it saying "why cant you just see the truth in front of you" how can i tell if she is interested in me and wants me to ask her out we just met a few weeks ago well almost a month ago and are getting to know each other better can some one tell me the things a shy girl will do to get your attention and let you know she feels the same way about you please help :) ????
2007-05-12 11:48:56 · 13 answers · asked by Paul B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, well you took a huge risk by meeting her in person. It's very simple. So you want to know if she is interested in you right? Well all you have to do is think. If she wasn't interested in you would she have taken' the risk by meeting you in person? No. Or you could do the traditional way; ASK HER OUT. She is interested in you. We've got that all clear now. She lieks you, that's why she met you and talks to you, you will never "know" completely what she is thinking, so ask her out.
2007-05-12 11:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Bimzy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like the two of you are already on the pathway to getting to know each other. But she does not sound as shy as you are presenting in this forum. My suggestion is to continue talking. Perhaps start by phone conversation. People who meet in chat rooms and on line are taking big risks. I would advise taking it slow. If you do decide to meet - make sure it is somewhere open and there are lots of people. Maybe she can bring a friend of hers and you, a friend of yours so that you are grouped. With everyone talking and sharing, nobody will feel left out, and awkward. Please be careful. I fear for people who meet online and certainly encourage safety in all areas. Good luck.
2007-05-12 18:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy girls don't do anything to get your attention.... Well they usually just pay more attention to you, or start acting less shy..... Anyway, shy girls don't leave big clues if they like you or not. You just have to know her that well to understand her. She might be smiling more, for example, or doing really tiny stuff to impress you. I have no advice other than that, so yeah, just do your best and don't get yourself and/or her hurt in the process. Oh and good luck!
2007-05-12 18:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by reemstar123181 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God's sake just ask her out. And cut the "I may die" drama. Nothing in a relationship is that dire.
2007-05-12 18:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by troythom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well shy girls usually try to play hard to get . Underneath her shyness shes probably hiding who she really is. First and foremost try to gain her trust and try to be careful because shy girls tend to be really emotional. Try to have as many open conversations as you can but remember don't rush things take it slow.
2007-05-12 18:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by thrasher_girlforlife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her sit her down and tell her how you feel and ask her out, its that simple you're just making it hard for yourself
2007-05-12 18:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to die over something like this.
2007-05-12 18:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear it all the time on these form's and i don't understand why everyone beats around the bush? do as i do if you like someone tell them! you have nothing to lose..............it's that easy don't be a ding-dong!
2007-05-12 18:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by gothicblack@rogers.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she must be giving you some suttle hints your missing.
girls cant belive guys dont know when they are being flirted with. read up on the signs.
2007-05-12 18:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by overwhelmed999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really talk to her and just strate up ask her how she feels
what she thinks about it
2007-05-12 18:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋