I'm going out with my first boyfriend and we dont live really close so we talk on the phone alot. but the problem is that im quiet and dont talk much, so often we just don't talk which isn't very comfertable. Any suggestions on what to do?
2007-05-12 11:27:21 · 5 answers · asked by c d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him know that you don't talk much. Communication is key in relationships, and if you don't feel comfortable letting him know that, then this probably isn't the right guy for you. Don't feel bad, because many people are quiet. If he really likes you, he'll understand. Also, try setting aside specific dates/times/places where you might be able to meet with each other. Long distance relationships are tough; if it's meant to work it will. Just relax and have fun. Relationships are meant to bring you up, not bring you down.:)
2007-05-12 11:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by kendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, Idk. Well, for you guys to hangout more and laugh would make both of you more comfortable. It would be really hard ot have a long distnce relationship. Just hope you don't get to serious with this. It can be very painful after a while. But don't be afraid to ask any questions. Ask for his favorite movies, songs, singers, shows and stuff. And you tell him yours. Get to know each others favorite colors and more about each others family. You can always learn more about somebody everyday.
2007-05-12 18:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by nextkobe1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. talk about music.movies things that you know about and you are both interested in. and if you don't talk much he will get bored with you. communication is the best way to keep a relationship going.
2007-05-12 18:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation. Say what your doing. Ask him what he is doing, how he is doing, how was his day, and things like that.
2007-05-12 18:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Emu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth and talk to him.
2007-05-12 18:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋