ok i already posted a question but yea myspace is da problem wit me and my boyfriend i broke his password and i found out that he has been flirting wit other girls and gettin their phone numbers and **** and i did lock him out his account and he got so angry wit me and so i decied to give it back to him cuz for one he has two pages he has a music page and a regular page and i had da password to his music page but i couldn't find out the password to his regular page so it really wasnt gone make a difference and i asked him to delete his page to make our relationship better i don't mind deleting mines cuz to me he is more important than myspace but he wuz like he can't delete his page cuz of his music and sh*t and i think thats a bunch of bull, i do so much for him, we don't stay together or anything but i basically take care of him cuz he doesnt work, and told him if he had a damn job he wouldn't have time to get on myspace cuz i sure in da hell don't i only get on there 1 every 2weeks
2007-05-12 11:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by sexichica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm... ok so your boyfriend has no job and is cheating (or looking to cheat)... why do you want to be with a loser like that?
2007-05-12 11:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your boy friend a musician? If so you got a man that is going to be very temperamental. God love you girl! :) Now this is just a suggestion, so don't get all "scrapie with me". Have you thought about some anger management classes. You cant change the other person. You can talk till your blue in the face and some times that helps, but this all began because you dissed your man. Rightfully, he was being deceitful, but none the less you invaded his privacy. We have to be careful when we leap over that line. Either respect his privacy, or check out some classes for the anger that rages within. There is just some places we never go, even when things like this happen. The job thing, you are totally down with this or you would not be dating him. Its weak ammo. If this is the root and you are just figuring out how this affects you, then tell him, its the highway or my way, get a job!!! :)
2007-05-12 19:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, Ive done the same thing. Only thing in my situation, me and the person i was with we were seperated at the time. I mean, clearly this is the kind of person he is. You don't know what he is doing or will do to you behind your back. I'm going thru kinda bad relationship problems and i hate when ppls only answer is, "let them go", "forget about them" and stuff. So, just do what i'm doing...Work your a** off to make this work, tell them whenever you have a problem with something, and take as much as you can take until you can't take anymore. Then, if they still ain't change then being alone and waiting for the next one is what you have to do!
2007-05-12 18:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by nextkobe1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i know how you feel my boyfriend is an ebay junkie and i know it's not the same thing but he spends alot of time on the computer. I think that if he really loves you he would consider your feelings, maybe you should cut back on all the things you do for him. Maybe then he will realize how important you are and not to take you for granted good luck!!
2007-05-12 18:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by darkcandy23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the last 1/4 of your plea here.... and think of the words "he is using me."
I bet you will find if you leave him he will get a job he will not be on myspace yady yady ya....and then just when he is begging for you to comeback tell him you found another guy off of myspace. *BAM!* (just like emril) thats payback baby
2007-05-12 18:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is such a free loader kick him to the curb and find a real man who can take care of YOU, and doesn't need to be on myspace flirting with anyother girls.
2007-05-12 18:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks! If he seems to get on myspace ALL the time, maybe you should seperate. But if its not much of a problem, give it time and see how it evolves. Tell you man its me or them, take your pic. Hopefully, he'll choose you!
2007-05-12 18:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no future in this relationship. Why are you wasting your time with this controlling jerk? You can do so much better!! You don't need all these headaches. Find someone whose as mature as you, and has his s*** together. Good luck, girl!
2007-05-12 18:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do. But really you should ask yourself that question as to stay with him or dump him. You have friends either way. If you stay with him, take the risk.
2007-05-12 18:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by The Answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get a job and stop going on myspace
2007-05-12 18:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by paul m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋