sexy tips???

Question

right this is a kinda long story but, there's this guy at my dancing group and he's really cute n we're kind of together now but no one at dancing can know and i want to know how to make him really want me, do you have any flirting tips or anything i can do at dancing and / or just in general? inot being modest but i know i'm quite 'sexy' as he puts it i just need help to work with lol thanks!!! xxxx

Answer 1

Okay, first of all, I think this guy already finds you sexy because he's with you. If you just want some helpful tips to spice things up, here ya go. This is a bit tricky because you don't want anyone else to find out in your dancing group. I would suggest that when you guys are there, always make consistent eye contact with him. He'll feel good that you have him in mind. Maybe lean in every now and then and whisper whatever you want into his ear. Try grabbing his hand every now and then. What you can do to be sexy with him in general is gaze into his eyes. I personally love when a girl caresses my face or plays with my hair, but that's just me. Being sexy doesn't mean that you have to overdue it. Being innocent and subtle is sexy enough.

Answer 2

not his house parenst could come in at any minute had it happen and it's really embarassing i but my hands kinda on my bf's neck oh and lightly kissing the ear or neck usually gets people going and it's really hot! lol oh and movies is a cool place but you can get kicked out if you know 100% that his parents won't be home or w/e be at the house but i hope that help if you want to know more just ask me! oh and start off slow and tease him a little pulling away but not to much but i know my bf finds it hot and a real turn on when i do it

Answer 3

If he has told you he thinks your sexy then he wants you.Dont let it go to your head though because LUST is NOT love.Just because a guy wants you for sex so bad he cannot see straight , he may tell you he loves you just to get your panties off.After the hormones have settled and you have spent time together in other places than the bedroom his mind may change anc change quick, especially if a new sexy dancer joins the group who has her eyes on him.

Answer 4

First of all if you two do "spark" - everyone around you is going to know it, unless the rest of the group is blind and deaf, - so I would'nt worry about that - lovers exude a certain sexual energy that is very hard to turn off and on like a water tap - and when you are in such close proximity to one another - I think that not letting that show through is going to be next to impossible, - but first you have to make sure he gets you're signals.

The brain is the the main sex organ we posess - but we often forget that; in this case let's not.. Sexy does not have to equal slutty, let it equal exciting and flattering instead.

Appearance. "They say dress for sucess". How confident are you that your current make up, hair and wardrobe are appropriate and up-to-date for your age - and show off your best features, while concealing or down-playing those aspects of your appearance you are less than happy with?

When was the last time you updated your look? I suggest that you go to the make up and clothing department of the best high-end womens stores in the area - say a Bloomingdales, or specialty Boutique shops, where they have beauticans on the floor who can help you find makeup that will flatter your skintone & coloring, and show you how to apply it. Do this at several locations to see if you get a "consistent" opinion of what to do to look your best. Then make an appointment with the bestr hair & beauty salon around to get you hair, makeup and nails done. Before they do your hair explain what you want to accomplish - sexy but classy and subtle, something that's very easy to maintain, and perhaps a color change - or highlites. Most high end salons have digital computer programs that they can use to show you ahead of time what different "does" would look like on you. THey take your picture head on, and side profile, and then the beautician or designer works with you to comeup with a new style and color scheme that will transform your look into the present. The same technology can be used by the makeup artist to show you what she recommends for your new make up treatment.. Lastly a manicure and pedicure./

The wardrobe: : Same thing; - find the best shops and boutiques and ask for help in finding a new look for yourself. You want sexy but classy, Something that is timeless and yet every bit feminine. Show some clevage, Use sexy lingerie wisely with translucent teddies, shimmering fabrics, - whatever sets your new hair and make up off to the fullest. You'll want formal, causul, and "cuddle & bed room" outfits.

Now unless you're a woman of unlimited means, and you've been paying attention to what you've been shown - then it's off the the Outlet Malls, Marshalls, Target, and similar venues when you can start rebuilding your wardrobe on a more resaonable budget. Same goes for shoes. Sexy sling backs, open toed heels, - show off those pedicured little toes!

The sexiest Part: You. Eye contact is critical. Give him your best "come hither and make love to me smile" hold his eyes, then give him a little wink . Wait for him to look away first, if he continues to gaze at you, lick your lips, drop you head slightly and give him a wicked little smile from under your eye brows. Tilt you head to an unoccupied corner, and move toward it - still holding him with your eyes, (use your peripheral visiion, to make sure you don't want to fall over a chair, or run head-long into another couple.

When he meets you , lean in closeput you hands on his chest kiss his cheek chastely and say sexily Hi, My name is _______, and I've noticed you from the first time I got here, and tonite I wore this outfit just for you - do you like it? If you don't we can go back to my place and I can take it off. Or something like that. Hey you only go around once - have FUN. Men like women who enjoy the fact that they are women, and have that which only a woman can provide a man.

He can either come on to you , or turn red and look like he's going to have a grand mall siezure right there on the spot - if it's the latter reaction - let go with a great big laugh - and keep it up, and make a joke of it - saying "Oh my God - if you could see the look on your face - I'm so sorry that was really in bad taste - but I just could'nt resist - you looked like someone who would appreciate a good joke" Are you OK - really - it's one hell of an ice-breaker either way..

Well good luck Sexy Lady, remember to let it shine through, and you'll be just fine, and it's about being in the game - not hitting a home run every time. But at all times be true to yourself, so that when you do make a connection, you can continue into a relationship if that's what you desire, based on honesty and truth.. I'm pulling for you.

Answer 5

I know the best tip for you honey! : Just tell him! Talking to the other person always resulting the best way .....
Good luck and have fun dancing!

Answer 6

just be yourself he will like u better, dont over do the flirty bit you mite put him off.....he obvoiusly likes you for who you are...''dnt listen to ppl telling you that you should say something as crude as they says above''... thats just slapper talk!!!'' and we all know men want girls like that for one thing only...they are not long term........so if u want long term dont act like a slapper lol

Answer 7

If your hot you should have no problem, but if that doesnt help then the guy isnt interested in you, or gay

Answer 8

the truth will set u free

Answer 9

Vanity...... is an ugly attribute...so you may not be as sexy as you think.

Answer 10

you're right... you're not modest. but you should probably try that out.