I met my current boyfriend at a party a while back. Since he lived about an hour away from me, we would talk on the phone constantly. About two months ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend, and I said yes. He is the sweetest boy in the world and I really like him too, but now I just don't have any romantic feelings towards him. I want to break up with him, but I just can't hurt him. Seriously, what am I supposed to say? I just don't feel anything between us? Please help me!
2007-05-12 17:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by starry_eyed_suprise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's pretty much no gentle way to put a guy down. Just be honest with him and thats all you can do. If you start making up excuses of why it had to happen. He'll get all crazy and start getting mad at you... or trying to find ways around the excuses...
so remember don't blame him.
be truthful its just not there.
And he'll justh ave to deal with it
2007-05-12 17:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is such a hard thing to do. No matter what he is going to get somewhat hurt but there are ways that he won't get hurt too badly. Calmly explain that you no longer have romantic feeling towards him and that you feel it's time for the both of you to move on. It's sweet that you don't want to hurt him but it's inevitable. Plus if you have only been dating for two month's it shouldn't hurt him too much.
2007-05-12 17:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure to choose your wording carefully. Do not say anything that does not need to be said. That might hurt him more than he needs to be. Be sure to leave on good terms. Try not to say anything that could be taken as mean.
Breaking up is hard and there is no clear-cut way to do it. I wish you luck.
2007-05-12 17:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like ur so nice but I just don't got no love 4 u but some girl would b so lucky to have u cuz ur sweet and I think it is better to brake up than go with this and not be loved, Right?
2007-05-12 17:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sweet but upfront. Tell him it's not working out, but you'd still like to be friends. No, saying that is not considered lame.
2007-05-12 17:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Slow x Cheetah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong is that u still have fellings for this guy sothat why u care so much that you don't want to hart himm,he only wants to get to know you there arn't much goog men now so stick with him and i will work out
2007-05-12 17:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by yasminadana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, "You're a great guy, and I know everyone loves you- someone better than me. Of course I like you, but I'm just your friend. There's probably other friends who can like you that way, you know. I'm sorry, but you deserve better."
2007-05-12 17:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way not to hurt him so just be honest.
2007-05-12 17:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there no easy way to do it, just be honest with him and tell
him how you really feel.
2007-05-12 17:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋