my mom is mentally, and physically herting me.and this isnt like a regular he said she said situation. my mom has mentall problems and shes on medication for it she has 7 kids and she treated them all like this but she treats me worse because me and my little brother are the last ones at home.she told me that she should have stoped haveing kids after she had one of my sisters and one of my brothers and that i shouldnt be born.she says that she could have been a model in new york if it wasnt for us.she calls me all kinds of name and shes even worse when she drinks what should i do some one help me is thier eny programs or eny thing i can go in thats not foster care?
2007-05-12 17:54:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call Children's Services in your are. They'll help you.
2007-05-12 17:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you are having it so bad. I know that Job Corp helps a lot of kids I don't know what the age requirements are though. Foster care though not ideal may be much better for you right now than living with your mom if she is unstable. Your little brother needs help too. Is your mom taking her medications? You didn't mention your dad if possible call him for some help. See your guidance counselor at school maybe you can get some assistance. I wish I could help more but I think you need someone who helps families to make things better. Good luck.
2007-05-13 01:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by phylobri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takes a lot fo courage to write that.
Go to school counselor right away.
Is there anyone , an adult, teacher you can talk with ?
Adults do not always do or say the right things.
It is very unfortunate you are in this situation.
A lot of kids are, you are not alone. work at getting good grades, sounds nuts but .........i would bet, one day you would be an incredible counselor.
OR, whatever you wanted to be.
Don't give up until you find someone or several people to help you.
Foster care may be a good answer for you.
good luck. .........people do care about you, you do count !
2007-05-13 01:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by granapts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're mum is mentally i'll then it isn't her fault. But thats no excuse for taking out her problems on you.
Talk to you're school councellor or other trusted adult and they should be able to help you.
If you want to leave the house for good, then go to another family members such as grandparents, aunty's or uncle's, cousins or anyones and stay there until you get help.
2007-05-13 06:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Black Rainbow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these answers may seem scary because you love your mom and don't want to see this happen, but it needs to. You can't allow yourself to be harmed in any way, shape, or form. Parents aren't meant to abuse their children, they're meant to love and care for them. Try talking to someone like everyone else has said, it may be possible for you and your mother to receive counseling and resolve these issues. She may even need to see a psychiatrist if she has mental problems. I hope you get everything to work out.
2007-05-13 02:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kendo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get help. get her help, get yourself help everything. Foster care doesnt sound half bad in compairison. If you are being abused you need to call a hotline Call Toll-Free Child Abuse Hotline 1-888-SOS-CHILD (1-888-767-2445). You need to help your little brother and get out. Can you live with a sibling? a grandparent? an aunt or uncle? anything? Call that line and see what they suggest. Good luck you will get through it!
2007-05-13 01:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Miranda's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go find an AA meeting. someone there will be able to help you with out going to foster Care. Maybe you can stay with one of your older siblings until things get straightened out.
2007-05-13 01:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by shadow_watt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i saw a documentary on a boy who killed his mother that was like your mother. now i was in no way stating you should kill your mother. i am saying you need to go for help. bruises, marks, anything that your mother has done to you physically will get it started. tell a teacher, a police officer, a friends parent. obviously your mother has issues that need dealt with. and the way she treats you is in no way how you need to be treated.
i wish you the best
2007-05-13 00:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by BrosephYoung 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is usually a local government office people can report child abuse to. Maybe your High School councilor can advise you or tell you who to report it to.
2007-05-13 00:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Wrath Warbone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your teacher at school about this or your counsellor if you have one.
You don't deserve this abuse and you shouldn't have to put up with it.
Its not your fault, hon. Hang in there.
2007-05-13 00:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋