One of my close-friends asked my guy-friend if hre likes me and told him I like him when I was not around. I feel kinda mad at her but at the same time i feel stupid for getting angry over that. Should I?
2007-05-12 17:48:22 · 18 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think your friend wants what's best for you and wants you to be happy. But then again I do agree it was a rude thing to do without you knowing. But no don't be mad at her, just tell her never to do it again, tell her how you feel. Also just because of this guy you got mad at her, that guy isnt worth losing your friendship with you & her.
2007-05-12 17:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have reason to believe she had an ulterior motive for doing it, it sounds like she was trying to make your wish come true. Kinda hard to be mad about that. I know it is embarrassing but the upside is you will now find out if the feelings are mutual. If not you can move on to someone worth your time and attention. Take care and Good Luck!!!!
2007-05-13 01:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by bella2494 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not wrong to feel a bit upset because she went behind your back and kinda betrayed you and said something that probably made you extremely embarrassed....BUT!! at the same time she was just trying to be a good friend and see if she could get him to go out with you ya know.....so i don't think you should be mad....she was just trying to help you with this guy.
2007-05-13 01:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by my skittles are green >.< 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him? Were you procrastinating in attempting to tell him?
It's normal to feel angry but it would seem that you are angry because you do like him and were trying to tell him and couldn't.
Did you mention to this friend that you liked him or could the friend tell?
You have to look inside yourself for the answer to your question.
2007-05-13 00:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Like being a DINK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be mad at the fact that she blabbed behind your back; but then, this guy is your friend. And if he is a true friend he will understand, and not blow it out of proportion.
2007-05-13 02:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by Allie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should be "MAD" perse. this happened with me like three days ago, so I know how you feel, but think of it as them doing you a favor in a sense... however If you didnt like the guy then you should ask her politely to stay out of YOUR business.
2007-05-13 00:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Orlando D. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is doing a bit of match making, thats what friends do. So dont be angry and be greatfull that you have friends like her.
2007-05-13 01:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by carswoody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calmly ask why she told him, it might have been with your best interest in mind, then let her know you were not too thrilled with her action so it doesn't happen again and leave it at that so you remain close.
2007-05-13 00:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by Suzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat, your friend could've done something much worse than that. Doesn't really sound like something that would cause distrust. Maybe she was just doing what you were scared to. Talk to her and work it out
2007-05-13 00:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it ur obviously young and thats what young people do. She is only trying to do whats best for you.
2007-05-13 07:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by mystery lass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋