Family & Relationships - 12 May 2007

O.K. so I had this happen to me again recently and have to know what's the deal. Sometimes when a guy is with their girlfriend, I have the feeling that they are staring at me. Why is this? Do you guys need a contant ego boost? Some kind of assurance that other girls are into you? It's not that the girlfriends are ugly either, infact usually they are very pretty. I'm really just average, so I don't get it. I don't dress slutty and I'm not interested in someone's bf, but I just find it bothersome. What do you think?

2007-05-12 18:38:41 · 12 answers · asked by GlamourQueen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a cousin over and he told me that he knows a girl in his church group that he really likes, and he told me that he is afraid to ask her out... and i dont know what to say, i dont want to let him down by not saying anything, but i don't want to say the wrong thing.

Someone please tell me something to tell him... He is going back home tomorrow

2007-05-12 18:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by ihaveaquestiontoask 1 in Singles & Dating

Well... my father and I aren't that close... I guess as time went on we stopped talking to each other. I only say a few words to him somedays and then just go back to what I'm doing. When I was small I always love to see my dad smile or laugh at movies or something. He would always bring me up to bed when I fell asleep on the couch and would hug me sometimes. I guess I miss those times, but it feels awkward talking to him again and I just stare at something else. Most of the times I would get in arguements with him and just yell at him. After that I would just run up into my room and slam the door. I often cry at those times...what should I do?

2007-05-12 18:38:19 · 14 answers · asked by Mimi 3 in Family

2007-05-12 18:38:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone here thinks that 13 - 14 is too young to date? Shouldn't have to do with their maturity, not how old they are?

2007-05-12 18:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so this girl & i were bffs but liked each other.
she replaced me and went out with another guy.
we never talked ever since, especially cuz of that.
he cheated on her once but they still got back.
well, we kinda started talkin again but shes kind of a sl*t.
i recently saw her making out with 3 different guys.
i wanna do what seems right.
should i just come right out and tell him?
should i tell a few people and let him find out?
or should i confront her and tell her do somethin about it?

2007-05-12 18:36:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

through the door.
He had remembered it was going to be my birthday before we would work together again.

So it hit him that tonight's bye had additional meaning to it...
He came back in and hugged me big and wished me a Happy Birthday. There were too many ppl around for much more attention.


Should I feel special because he came back??
He had told me earlier tonight he was missing me.

2007-05-12 18:36:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, first of all, let me point that I'm not gay; but even though I think I've fallen in love with my best male friend. He's been a support for me in a lot of situations and everything was OK 'til I knew he actually was dating his cousin. He's really into him (I've talked to him about the subject, and he doesn't consider himself as gay not even bisexual) and they're both in love. But when I get a chance to think about it, I get jealous and profoundly wish I was his cousin...why did this happen to me?...We really treat each other as if we were brothers, but I'm afraid that if I tell him anything about this matter, I'd destroy our friendship.

2007-05-12 18:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by Alejandro H 1 in Friends

This guy approached me n we started txt right after he got my number from my sister n i noticed that he was into me so we acted like we were a couple n he finally revealed his feelings for me in a poem n now that he told me he dont like me anymore i feel that he lead me on wrong n that he only played with me but my feelings for him wont change n now his x wants to get back with him n i think that shes telling him to stop talking to me n now when i see him its akward between us. We dont even say hi anymore we smile at eachother, but its really confusing to me what should i do????

2007-05-12 18:33:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 18:31:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay...i have this friend and we used to be close but we're not anymore because we fought a lot and had lots of disagreements. we're going to this summer camp for like 4 days and i kind of want to hang out with him during those times. it's like it'll be a great chance to become "normal again" . the problem is if i should say it or no. i kind of want to tell him that we should hang out during camp so that we can be "normal". do you think it's stupid? how would you feel/?

2007-05-12 18:31:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are some subtle ways to turn on my boyfriend?
I want things that I can do at school or in other public places, and that aren't obvious that I'm trying to make him horny.

2007-05-12 18:30:53 · 9 answers · asked by ilu<33 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance bought my wedding/ engagement ring. So , what do I do about his ring? Do I buy it? Do I pick it out? Does he pick it out?

2007-05-12 18:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by Just Me :) 2 in Weddings

2007-05-12 18:28:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it stupid if you take back your "lie"?

my friend asked me if i was jealous of his relationship with his friends, but i said no.

now that i think about it, i kind of am. should i tell him that? or no?

2007-05-12 18:28:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love my gf very much..and i want to be the sweetest guy and i want her to love me more than she does...so please tell me some tips or stories

2007-05-12 18:27:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like 2 boys im 7 and ones 11 and ones 6 the six year old is cute and the eleven year old is old he blushes all the time when i tell him he smells like poo i have been realyy mean to both of them and i wanted to hear some advice to win back there hearts and also WICH ONES THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME

2007-05-12 18:27:26 · 10 answers · asked by soccer babe 1 in Friends

we recently began talking again after a 4 year haitus... we both confessed we still have deep feelings for each other. he is supposedly living w/ someone else now ... and has a kid. he says he hates her and etc... and he wishes he wasnt STUCK with her finanically ... and all this. anayways i got mad and cussed him out a few weeks ago. i didnt hear from him since so i called him and he said he wasnt mad or whatever he sounded like something was bothering him. i said can u call me 2nite he said he would try but he didnt.. anwyas do u think he is over me ?
also i shoudl mention when i cussed him out i said something mean i said take your small dick and shove it up your @$$

2007-05-12 18:25:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

am i a nerd or what?

2007-05-12 18:25:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We have a very loving relationship, and we spend a good deal of time together considering that we both have very crazy work schedules. However, he seems to be incapable of using a phone properly. He says he'll call, he doesn't...it's extremely frustrating, upsetting, and getting to the point on angering. I don't like to talk on the phone long, and a simple call less than 5 minutes is all i am asking on days we don't see each other. I have made this perfectly clear to him. I have explained that it upsets me when he doesn't call me, and it's not fair to me. I have explained it makes me focus on my work less. I have explained these things multiple times. I even asked him if he would prefer to not talk on days we don't see each other, and he replied with a very strong "no, of course not" I am at a loss of what to do next. We rarely argue or disagree, and this is the one issue I see between us. I am 24, he is 27.

2007-05-12 18:23:21 · 12 answers · asked by chicabonita 4 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in one of my classes this year. he is sooo cute. but sooo shy. but for me, i love shy, cute guys with big brown eyes. and thats him.

we were in a project together, but now that the project is over i dont talk to him in that class. i lost my chance at asking him to hang out :( so one day after school i was hanging out with my best friend and i wrote a note to him. just to you know see what i would say if i had the chance. but now im actually kinda thinking about giving him the note. do you think thats really like 5th gradish?? (im in 11th)

it only said like "i think we should hang out" with a few funny inside jokes that went around our group in the class.

should i give it to him? i mean what could go wrong? lol it might be kinda cute.

2007-05-12 18:23:05 · 18 answers · asked by kay114 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm really shy and i'd love some pointers for having conversations with guys, and not being borring

2007-05-12 18:20:52 · 5 answers · asked by qwerty!333 3 in Singles & Dating

I give them to my aunts, my husbands Godmother and my grandmother. (My husbands mother is deceased)

2007-05-12 18:19:28 · 11 answers · asked by NY_Attitude 6 in Friends

im thinking about having sex and im wondering on what to do for the first time...im not going to say my age but i will tell you i am not a young teen.so .... what can i do?

2007-05-12 18:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 18:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, in school there are a lot of guys I think are cute and like, but I don't know if I should choose one, I mean what if they don't like me? Well anyways there is a smart dude I like and he is into army stuff ( XD ) and he also has a twin. Another guys are mostly troublemakers; there's one, he is pretty cool and lots of girls like him, but he has other friends and they are pretty disrespectful to some teachers and cuss most of the times. I seem to like guys I don't even know that much but I'm also very shy. There are also lots of other guys I like. Help me choose? or should I stay single? XD I don't know if they have girlfriends or not though... Btw... is it bad to crush on one of my friend's boyfriends...?

2007-05-12 18:17:24 · 9 answers · asked by Mimi 3 in Singles & Dating

Would he bother trying to search for something nice about her appearance?

2007-05-12 18:15:06 · 19 answers · asked by Calista 5 in Singles & Dating

Im a latin girl, who met an american guy, and i really like him. but WHY ARE U SO COLD GUYS?' WHY??.. cause you left home early.. ... it`s nasty of u.
In my world love and affection is the principal and most important thing.. mmmm

2007-05-12 18:14:18 · 23 answers · asked by rochi_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i moved to this town about 3 yrs. ago and one of the first guys i met has always been friends. We hang out and I've dated one of his best friends. We use to always hangout and then he got a girlfriend and then we kind of stopped hanging out but we work together so we get to spend time.. and now him and his gf aren't really together and he's about to graduate and last night i saw him crying and he said that i was practically family and thanks for everything.. and i think i realized i like him possible love!!! What do I do?!?!

2007-05-12 18:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by christy 2 in Singles & Dating

Whats the least painful way to commit suicide? I was thinking filling the tub or sink, putting my head down & just not letting it up again, would that be more painful then im thinking?

2007-05-12 18:13:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships