im thinking about having sex and im wondering on what to do for the first time...im not going to say my age but i will tell you i am not a young teen.so .... what can i do?
2007-05-12 18:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one main thing to remember is to relax and not focus too much on every little thing...if you care about the person and it's mutual, then you shouldn't worry about it...i imagine you must care about the person if you are on here asking this in advance of "doing it."
try not to be embarrassed and think you have to be "perfect." concentrate on enjoying it and not the "performance" aspect. ask her what she likes; if she cares about you, she'll want to know what will make you feel good also.
the main thing is: there was a 1st time for us all. you will be ok!
2007-05-12 18:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have protection and make sure you feel ready etc, have fun I'm saving sex for marriage to my future hubbie eddie
2007-05-12 18:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm having sex YAHOO is my first thing on my mind too way to go, you made
2007-05-12 18:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the girl and make sure that there is nothing you don't know about. But most importantly, WEAR A CONDOM!!!!
2007-05-12 18:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in a relationship? Does your partner know that you are a 40-year-old virgin?
2007-05-12 18:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure you love this girl...and if you dont think she will be with you the rest of your life or dont want her to be then dont do it. cuz no matter what you do..once you have sex with her she will be with you alwaus
2007-05-12 18:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by Boot-Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have it. Everybody does, join the crowd.
2007-05-12 18:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be with someone who knows your a virgin and cares about you. that will make it much easier. best of luck!
2007-05-12 18:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some pussy to test drive
2007-05-12 18:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by lover boy 08618 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the hand
2007-05-12 18:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋