so this girl & i were bffs but liked each other.
she replaced me and went out with another guy.
we never talked ever since, especially cuz of that.
he cheated on her once but they still got back.
well, we kinda started talkin again but shes kind of a sl*t.
i recently saw her making out with 3 different guys.
i wanna do what seems right.
should i just come right out and tell him?
should i tell a few people and let him find out?
or should i confront her and tell her do somethin about it?
2007-05-12 18:36:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should mind your own business. I guess that's hard to do though when you live vicariously through another person. Maybe after you mind your business, you should find a life of your own?
2007-05-12 18:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Joker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thing is... dude if ya gonna tell be ready to back it up with proof. Cause otherwise your boy is gonna call ya a hater! I wouldn't say anything personally. But then if he found out later that you knew and didn't tell him he could be a little ticked about it. Your in a catch 22! Damned if ya do and damned if ya don't! Either way it sounds like she doesn't deserve him at all. 3 Different guys??? Come on now!! Does she have any self respect?
2007-05-12 18:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by angiee631 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my bros had a gf that was cheating on him, my first instinct was of course to go up to him and tell him, well when i did that, i was treated like i was the bad guy and told i was trying to mess up their relationship and was accusing his gf of something she'd never do. To this day, i am no longer friends with him, and his gf hates me with a passion. Lesson learned: though it may be hard, it's best to stay out of it.
2007-05-12 18:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to keep you nose in your own book. If he was a good friend of yours, then I'd advise that you tell him. Since he's not a good friend and a cheater himself, why would you bother?
2007-05-12 18:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Мəəĸά 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR GIRL WAS CHEATING? I MEAN...IN A SUBTLE SENSE WHEN YOU ARE ALL OUT TOGETHER WITH FRIENDS. BRING UP CHEATING. IN THE ALL AROUND SENSE AS A TOPIC FOR EVEYONE. DON''T BE ACCUSITORY. THEN LET HER STEW AND WATCH HER GET RED. WHEN HE ISN'T LOOKING, GIVE HER THE EVIL EYE.
2007-05-12 18:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in your situation, I would not say anything. It would seem like you are jealous and trying to destroy their relationship. Let them settle it themselves and find out. It is not of your concern.
2007-05-12 18:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by michael p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soundz like not much of a friend to have whats your motive are you mad at her still or do you really care about this guys feelings
2007-05-12 18:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yea of course...if that's your friend bring them to the light..you wouldn't want that kept from you!!
2007-05-12 18:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do the 'right' thing, STAY OUT OF IT.
2007-05-12 18:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by ***&&*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easier yet. Stay out of it.
2007-05-12 18:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋