okay...i have this friend and we used to be close but we're not anymore because we fought a lot and had lots of disagreements. we're going to this summer camp for like 4 days and i kind of want to hang out with him during those times. it's like it'll be a great chance to become "normal again" . the problem is if i should say it or no. i kind of want to tell him that we should hang out during camp so that we can be "normal". do you think it's stupid? how would you feel/?
2007-05-12 18:31:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YEH it is fine to let a friend know that you care about them. If you do want to spend time, then let him know. But if for some reason you feel bad to let him know, It might be for two reasons. In those both ideas LOVE might have something to do with it.
REASON # 1.....it might be because you have said some cruel thing to him. If that is the case then apologize. Then let him know that you want an other chance. Hopefly it will work out.
REASON # 2....And if you feel that he should say sorry to you and you are just trying to be that nice person you are then go for it. Say that you don't want him to say sorry and tell him that people make mistakes. And then add that you want to start all over. Get to know each other batter. Lets see what he says.
There are two different ways you can approach him. So go make the move. I hope that helped you.
2007-05-12 18:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by I see me in you. And you in me. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends that piss us off, or we fight alot with are usually the opportunity to learn and grow within ourselves as well as in any kind of relationship..
these kind of Friends are our mirrors!! So much like us, it isn't always pretty!!
I like the go with the flow answer, yet flow with the intention of hangin out and having a good time.
I think wanting it ''to be like it used to'' is NOT always a great goal, more like better than it used too, especially if you don't want it to end up tumultuous, (rocky) like it has...
Normal is a bit wide open, be specific in you intention, but your heart into it and go for it...
Your Intention here is really important, dont just think it out, feel it out, I am sure you will have a great time and all of this will make your friendship stronger...
2007-05-13 19:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by j.w. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just go with the flow of things....thats cool of you to not wanna have any pent up agression I do believe we all have to let go of the little things. Just join in with him doing activities if you can ask him to be your partner. Then when your decent with eachother maybe tell him dude I really miss your company sorry for what happened Im having a good time here.
2007-05-12 18:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rockchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. If you get to camp, and there are opportunities to hang out with him, then you should go hang out with him. You don't have to plan out when you are going to spend with him because that is stupid. So just let it go and if the time comes, hang out...if it doesnt, dont worry about it.
2007-05-12 18:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by ...... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll probably come home hating each other. With all the other guys and girls there, there's sure to be a lot of misunderstandings. You two don't trust each other anyway and have a tendency to fight, so find someone else. There's no future for you two, so you might as well make him jealous. I hope you have a good old time.
2007-05-12 18:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. it's not stupid. Don't ever think that what u feel, or want to do is ever stupid. ur not stupid. ur smart. I think u should do what u believe is right 4 u. Don't ever doubt yourself. [=
2007-05-12 18:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should have to tell him that yall wanna hang out. i say that if yall end up patching things up and stuff, then thats how it was meant to be. if not, oh well, his loss.
2007-05-12 18:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you let him make the move instead of making a jerk of yourself.
2007-05-12 18:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell him because he probably wants to be around you to and he may be too shy to tell you.
2007-05-12 18:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by chula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good man go for it
2007-05-12 18:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋