ok so i moved to this town about 3 yrs. ago and one of the first guys i met has always been friends. We hang out and I've dated one of his best friends. We use to always hangout and then he got a girlfriend and then we kind of stopped hanging out but we work together so we get to spend time.. and now him and his gf aren't really together and he's about to graduate and last night i saw him crying and he said that i was practically family and thanks for everything.. and i think i realized i like him possible love!!! What do I do?!?!
2007-05-12 18:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by christy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ooo and my best friend use to like him alot and he hooked up with her and lied to his gf about it ... ( at the time)
2007-05-12 18:27:04 · update #1
ouch! He pulled out the family line. That could mean that he feels really close to you(which could be a good thing) or he feels like you are just that : Part of his family (like a sister)
Tell him you like him. What harm can come from that. Don't tell him your in love with him, but tell him that you do like him. If he doesn't feel that way, then at least you know and can move past those feelings.
2007-05-12 18:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by memoriesareabeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first be sure that you 100% actually love him... ask yourselves questions like were you jealous about him and his girfriend.. do you get all excited when you speak to or see him.. etc.
you also have to make sure you aren't feeling this because of the state he was in.. as in because he was crying you might have felt sorry for him and what he said to you made you feel happy or something...
if you really love him then tell him... but just be sure that you actually do before you tell him...
2007-05-13 01:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, then tell him. Always be careful with a man who is comfortable pouring his heart out to you. He needs to hold it together because he is the man. If he can't then he wouldn't be a good boyfriend anyway and you would be miserable, so think that through.
2007-05-13 01:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should hang around him and comfort him and be yourself and see if he's falling for you and if he does you tell him how you really feel about him or you wait util he tells you in that case you won't feel all that bad if he doesn't love you but i hope it works out GOOD LUCK if it's true love you won't need it
2007-05-13 01:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time for you to tell him. Be honest and everything will work out fine.
2007-05-13 01:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"practically family" is that.. he saw u like a very close friend. if u have any doubt, be honest tell him ur feelings .. but probably.....
2007-05-13 01:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by rochi_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o jeez... sounds like smallville... tell him now... work up enough guts, do watever u need to do to get the point across. I promise you, you will regret it if you don't act now. What do you have to lose?
2007-05-13 01:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you see him crying tell him "GET AHOLD OF YOURSELF, ARE YOU NOT A MAN?!?" then take your pants off and as he's awed at your purple panties walk sexifully away
2007-05-13 01:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he said you are practically family, he dont consider you as being something more.
2007-05-13 01:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on man let him know you feel about him. looks like he wants you
2007-05-13 01:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋