Im a latin girl, who met an american guy, and i really like him. but WHY ARE U SO COLD GUYS?' WHY??.. cause you left home early.. ... it`s nasty of u.
In my world love and affection is the principal and most important thing.. mmmm
2007-05-12 18:14:18 · 23 answers · asked by rochi_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you will find that Americans are just slower to warm up to new people when compared to Latins. The same us usually true when two cultures meet: culture x feels that culture y is too cold, talkative, loud, aggressive... and culture y feels that culture x is overly friendly, too quiet/shy, weak...
Americans feel the same way about other cultures, such as Germans or Swiss as it usually takes longer for the latter to open up to strangers than Americans. Just the first step in an interesting adventure in understanding other cultures.
2007-05-20 17:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Y- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are just passing judgement on a general consensus based upon bad experiences you've had with American men. Before such a statement can be made, you have to go out and experience more. Get to know different kinds of American men. There are so many different types of guys, you couldn't possibly do so. But you can get to know enough guys to see that your opinion is biased off of a bad experience or two, and come to realize American guys aren't cold, at least, not all of them. I can see where you're coming from. In fact, I met a few Latinas who gave me the cold shoulder. But I still do not pass judgement on them and put them in a sterotype. Just gain more experience, knowledge, and wisdom.
2007-05-12 18:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Niko? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i must say not all american men are like that.Some of us are also in the same world as you. Some men, love and principals are a big thin to them. But yes their are some DOGS out their that almost ruin it for us all.
2007-05-12 18:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by chriswh90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It not all of us but I think you met a insecure guy maybe he didn't want to get attached or he really was cold. And americans have principles too but soo many of us dont follow it. Im sorry and im not suprised you had to encounter this awful guy. Dont worry theres plenty of better american guys out there like me but im taken.
2007-05-12 18:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sam B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess Americans believe in Survival of the Fittest. And cynicism is a sign of toughness. I believe it's natural instinct.
Personally, I think that that is terrible. And while I don't believe that it's our responsibility to be nice to each other, it's the right thing to do. The only person you should look out for is you (and your family, if you have one).
2007-05-12 18:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well you can't lump all of us American men together because you have one bad experience.Have you ever thought that maybe you are the reason this guy is so cold? Or have you talked to him about it?
2007-05-12 18:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by curtf1964 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're reading him wrong. If you're not, he's just not the right guy. Some can be cold, but that's like saying, "You wear funny pajamas. Why do all Americans wear funny pajamas?"
2007-05-12 18:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by karenhar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont know too many cold guys but if your a strong woman that respects herself then youll get the respect back. alot of women in america dont respect themselves so guys get used to treating them nasty. hold your shoulders up an get the affection from the right guy
2007-05-12 18:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by tzimmer44 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all american guy are cold you just have to meet the right one for you just like you would anywhere else you may go to look for a guy
2007-05-20 13:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kiki2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cold has nothign to do with American or Latin.
Talk with him.
Tell him how you feel.
good luck
2007-05-12 18:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by granapts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋