What do you do if your still in love with your ex boyfriend but are dating someone that you love?

Answer 1

Join the Swingers. If you do not have one in your local area, make one.

Answer 2

It is quite possible that it is not the ex that you are still in love with but rather that it may be the loss of something that you once had (that being the relationship itself) or the guilt of having something not work out the way you hoped.

If you were with your old partner for any length of time then it would be natural that this person would still have some thoughts in your life. The main thing to realize is that in any relationship where there is an end, there is also a grieving process that you must go through. So once you recognize that and allow your self to heal, then you can turn your full attention to this person who now captivates your heart.

Cheers!

Answer 3

Awww. No one can answer that but you. You have to choose, I know it's hard. Take the Notebook (movie) for example. If you haven't seen that movie, you should. : ) The girl is torn between her ex and the man she's about to marry. She loves them both so much. Her fiance is nice,wealthy, handsome, parent-approved, and basically what every girl dreams of. He totally loves her, and she loves him. Then there's her ex. He's cute, so romantic, kind of on the poor side (but a hard woker), but would totally do anything for her. They love eachother so much, it's unreal. Maybe their lives will be hard, and maybe sometimes full of disagreements, but they are truly in love. So like this girl from the Notebook, you have to choose from the 2 loves of your life. Picture your life 10 years down the road with each of them, and take your time. No matter who you choose, you'll probably have some doubts, and you probably will never forget the person you let go. Do what makes you happy. Good luck!

Answer 4

Aww hon, I think you are one of thousands. I was given some advice a short time back that I really like. It was that...your heart doesn't just turn off to the world when you're in love with someone. What happens is, you make a choice. A choice that you are committed to one person and that person is committed to you. It's ok to still have an old love in your heart, it will probably always be there; but the fact that you CHOSE to be committed to this new love...it's a wonderful thing, ya know?

Answer 5

Recognize that as a teen, there will be many many more men that you will love in your life, for different reasons. In your 20's you will change and grow into yourself like you wouldn't imagine. You'll probablly think, what was the big fuss about those two guys? It's also ok for you to continue loving and caring about your ex as a friend, but if you love your ex more than the new guy, you may need to find a way to get closure with the first one. please know that Im not trying to discount your feelings in anyway, by saying that youre young. I know it hurts just the same, but it will get easier to recognize who you want to be with, when you grow older and begin to know yourself, and what you like better. If it's a possibility, you may want to try and date both guys to decide which one (if either) you like better.

Answer 6

He must be an EX for a reason. Stay with the one you love.

Answer 7

well then you are probably not in love with either of them. you shouldn't see anybody until you are over the first it's not fair to the new guy. You'll just end up hurting him and you.

Answer 8

I had the same problem, and a psychologist cleared it up for me. All he said was "It can only be one way." That cleared it up for me immediately. The thought of living without my now husband of 30 years, was intolerable.

Answer 9

Does your ex love you back If not forget it,

Answer 10

Get a bad headache. You are one mixed up person.