O.K. so I had this happen to me again recently and have to know what's the deal. Sometimes when a guy is with their girlfriend, I have the feeling that they are staring at me. Why is this? Do you guys need a contant ego boost? Some kind of assurance that other girls are into you? It's not that the girlfriends are ugly either, infact usually they are very pretty. I'm really just average, so I don't get it. I don't dress slutty and I'm not interested in someone's bf, but I just find it bothersome. What do you think?
2007-05-12 18:38:41 · 12 answers · asked by GlamourQueen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I am guilty myself!! It is not that we men do not love who we are with. I have been married to the same women for 14 years and have not cheated on her. But sometimes I find myself flirting with another. I guess it is kind of a reassurance or ego boost. I do not guess that women get the fact that men love to look at women. It is not meant to be a bad thing. To me a woman is like a breath of fresh air. As a guy you want women to like you. I hope that helps in some way.
2007-05-12 19:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sergeant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men choose form...they get unwell of issues unquestionably. you ordinarily could desire to strengthen issues between you and a guy so as that he doesnt lose interest. If he's bored he will finally end up searching for yet another lady so as that he would be happy.
2016-10-15 12:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature. Men and women are programmed differently. This is definitely on the normal side of things because so many people talk about it.
I dont get mad about it because my husband usually says something like "hey look at that girls butt" and I do. lol I guess I influence him because I'll say things like "look at that girls boobs! I want some like that".
All in fun for us, nothing out of line in our relationship.
2007-05-12 19:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there are many possibilities:
1- His girl is not satisfying him, so he has the urge to look somewhere else
2- sometimes, there is nothing wrong in enjoying the view (look but do not touch, there is no harm in that)
2007-05-12 18:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Devilish Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just a guy thing. Even though they might be happily married, they are still going to look. My preacher warns us if we look for over two seconds; it's LUST!
2007-05-12 18:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They are in a committed relationship, they are not dead. People look at other people. It means nothing. Take it as a compliment and move on.
2007-05-12 18:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm a female and i'm married and my husband still checks out other girls and if i see a real pretty girl i will point her out to him . all guys do it i don't let stuff like that bother me . i still check out guys even if they are with thier girlfriends .
2007-05-12 18:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not about ego or cheating. This is called human nature.
2007-05-12 18:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by No Lies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its our hobby...
at least for me I just want to kno if I just suckered this girl into dating me or if other girls feel the same way
2007-05-12 18:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We might be unavailable, but we arent dead.
2007-05-12 18:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋