Well, in school there are a lot of guys I think are cute and like, but I don't know if I should choose one, I mean what if they don't like me? Well anyways there is a smart dude I like and he is into army stuff ( XD ) and he also has a twin. Another guys are mostly troublemakers; there's one, he is pretty cool and lots of girls like him, but he has other friends and they are pretty disrespectful to some teachers and cuss most of the times. I seem to like guys I don't even know that much but I'm also very shy. There are also lots of other guys I like. Help me choose? or should I stay single? XD I don't know if they have girlfriends or not though... Btw... is it bad to crush on one of my friend's boyfriends...?
2007-05-12 18:17:24 · 9 answers · asked by Mimi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have a smorgasbord to choose from. Take your time and observe how they behave. As yourself about each one - "Would I take him home to meet my father?" If you don't want your father to meet him, he's not the right guy for you.
2007-05-12 18:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose anyone. Take it from me, I was painfully shy when I was younger and I had usually liked more than one guy. Don't make it too serious right now, just be you. Just have fun and don't rush all that drama that goes along with having a relationship. The longer you stay unattached, the better. Be yourself and wait for the boys to notice YOU, then you'll have your choice and you can pick the NICEST one.
2007-05-13 01:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by dancingstar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should pick a good one. Bad boys bring nothing but trouble. They'll make you feel like crap, you'll be crying more times than you can count but you wont want to leave him because "you love him" when you really don't.
Pick someone who is worth being with you. Someone who isn't immature. Someone who isn't going to be hurting your feelings, or cussing other people out. Pick someone who is courteous and kind but not overly a goody goody.
Most of all, pick someone you're going to have fun with. and I'm not talking about sex either. I'm talking about someone who's going to make you laugh, and make you feel happy. Also someone you'll enjoy spending time with. If you don't find someone now, there isn't ANY reason to rush into it. Stay single until you find someone like that.
2007-05-13 01:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by memoriesareabeach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think, because of u being shy, that u feel like u NEED a boyfriend. make sure u have enough respect not to settle for just anyone. u don't NEED a boyfriend, but if u seriously want one, go for someone smart, and steer clear of the bad boys. I've already had my heart broken by 2 bad boys this year. and no, if u like a friends bf, it's not bad, just don't steal him from your friend, i would much rather have friend that a boyfriend
2007-05-13 01:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
STAY SINGLE... YOU LIKE TOO MANY SO IF YOU GOT INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GUY, YOU'D STILL LIKE THE OTHERS AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP WOULD FAIL. AND ABOUT LIKING YOUR friends boyfriend, it's not necessarly bad, just don't jump on it, and ruin things between thing because you could destroy a great relationship.
2007-05-13 01:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's bad to crush. What a horrible problem, If this was all I had to worry about life would be great.
2007-05-13 01:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do your homework well. Find out 3 things about the guys:
1. who is single
2. Who you like
3. Who likes you
2007-05-13 01:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Coolesthunk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
choose the one who chooses you! you seem to have no problem in liking guys, so you will definitely like the one who will like you!
2007-05-13 01:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by cristal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't pick guys. Guys pick you
2007-05-13 01:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋