I have a cousin over and he told me that he knows a girl in his church group that he really likes, and he told me that he is afraid to ask her out... and i dont know what to say, i dont want to let him down by not saying anything, but i don't want to say the wrong thing.
Someone please tell me something to tell him... He is going back home tomorrow
2007-05-12 18:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by ihaveaquestiontoask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to start sitting by her in church functions and outings. This will give him a natural in to be around her and start talking as this progresses naturally they will see if they have things in common. After a little while of this she will suddenly be the one nervous and hoping he takes notice of her. But you have to be calm and funny helps. And you have a frienship as the foundation.
2007-05-12 20:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by singletulsamale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him CARPE DIEM. Seize the day. Ask her out. Tell him he can go around torturing himself forever by not knowing or just go and do it. The worst thing she could say is no, then he will not be any worse off, he will be in the same position he's in now, but at least he will know. And if she does say no, the Earth will still continue to spin and his friends, family (especially you) will still be there for him.
Tell him to just start having a regular conversation with her and find out what she likes. Give her a flower (I always thought that was sweet) & ask her to an activity she likes... maybe a movie or something. And last but not least, to just be himself!
2007-05-12 18:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Leia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just saying Hi would do it, start a conversation, you will find out as the years pass women/girls don't really care for the preplanned lines, so be your self...or for your cousin be him self, talk to her....doors don't open by them selfs, good luck an God bless!
2007-05-12 18:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by close_my_eyes2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to pluck up the courage to ask
her out. Say it in a 'How hard can it be'
kinda waii.
Hopefulli that'l be enuf x
2007-05-12 18:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by mariah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to ask her out, what does he have to lose?
2007-05-12 18:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go for it. all she can do is say no.
2007-05-12 18:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by patricia l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go for it!!!!
2007-05-12 18:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by girly_girlhh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!
2007-05-12 18:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Granny D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋