Family & Relationships - 12 May 2007

i have son of age 19. last week i cauht him while doing crossdressing. he wore my sarees, blouse bangles even my bra and panty also. he want to wear my all jewellery and dresses. i am confused wot to do. He is very curious about my bangles, nathani. even when we are going out side he is watching all the sarees. he is going in market with market for observation of all female sarees her make up her bangles even her blouse also. he like all the sarees specially zig zag sarees and dresses. pls advice.

2007-05-12 19:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by alka s 1 in Friends

i have a friend and and we were at a kerokee bar like every saturday night and he was singing a song and when it came to a part that said i love myself he skipped over that part now i am woundering if i should call him and ask him why he doesn't love himself and see if he needs to talk to someone also i didn't see the girl he normally has at the bar and he didn't talk about her should i call or should i let it go

2007-05-12 19:28:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is like being really rude. She like's tell's me off like I asked her if she wanted to see a movie and she said "Not with you" and she was all like just playing. She keep's doing that. and when I tell her I love her she usually tell's me she loves me back but now she don't say it and she tell's me she don't believe me. WDF is going on? why is she doing this?

2007-05-12 19:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get offended when someone calls me hot, but I love when someone says I'm beautiful...do you distinguish between these as well?

2007-05-12 19:27:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what to do , then he comes in late he turns his phone off or wont answer and i have no idea what hes been doing. he tells me before he leaves and he doesnt go out every night , only once a week but when he does he screws with my head.

2007-05-12 19:26:55 · 8 answers · asked by linseynicoleharmon 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend that has no answer for his warmth. its really weird. could there be something abnormal?

2007-05-12 19:25:33 · 5 answers · asked by Stinky 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey ladies, I know a lotta guys try to hit on ya all the time. Many guys only have one thing on mind. How long would you wait before getting intimate?

2007-05-12 19:25:14 · 5 answers · asked by Prince 2 Tha Throne 1 in Singles & Dating

I am staying alone far away from my country, and now is already five months. I am scared to do sex outside my marriege, but I find myself in a country where are many beautiful girls allways going infront of my eyes.

2007-05-12 19:24:19 · 27 answers · asked by vense 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your marriage had been going downhill for 2 years and you never had a good job..now i have a good job and can afford to be on my own..thats the only reason i never left...now i can...should i

2007-05-12 19:23:15 · 16 answers · asked by Liz M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My marriage has had some major problems--6 weeks into my marriage, my wife kicked me and bruised my upper leg, and for over a year, I did not trust her or really want to move forward with finances or family. She spent November with her family, including Thanksgiving. We got back together, and then she found some stupid websites I browsed and never followed up or made any human contact. Well, now, 6 months later, she said she does not trust me, and gets jealous and suspicious anytime I mention meeting a female of any age. She says "How do I know you won't cheat with her?" I have never cheated on her for 3 1/2 years, and she wants to start a family very soon. I feel uncomfortable about bringing a child into this relationship where my wife does not trust me, and communicates this (verbally/non-verbally) to my kid. Should we divorce? Please offfer your thoughts. Thanks.

2007-05-12 19:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by frustrated 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Money is tight this month. I live an hour away from my grand daughter, she always likes me there to watch her. Will I have enough money for gas to go watch her?

2007-05-12 19:22:04 · 5 answers · asked by TxAngelHugs 1 in Family

ok i am a 17 yr old mexican female and i am 6 weeks pregnant ...the baby of my father is black..my family is against me having this baby and every one is so mad at me and tellin me what do do with my life! they say i should have a abortion at first i had no problem with it...then i thout about it and if i go thru with this i will never forgive myself my moms mom *grama* dont even want to talk to me and me and her have such a great bond it hurts me so bad she would ignore me like this i was her baby until now and im goin to graduate this year so i got my school done but dang is it that serious i want to have this baby?? i kno im not ready but i dont want to make the biggest mistake of my life and the baby father wants to be there he just got out the army and has a job and is a real koo guy.... but everybody put him down cause hes black what should i do ...go with what my heart tells me or listen to my family so i will be exepted by them im so confused

2007-05-12 19:19:23 · 14 answers · asked by DeeDee 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you still date a guy who you found very attractive ( physically/ intellectualy) if he told you that he doesnt make much money?

2007-05-12 19:18:33 · 24 answers · asked by Prince 2 Tha Throne 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy in my class but i don't know if he likes me what should I do should I ask him or what please help

2007-05-12 19:18:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf wants to play the nervous game whats that ??? (please answer seriously)

2007-05-12 19:16:20 · 14 answers · asked by girly_girlhh 4 in Singles & Dating

So I have this guy friend, we've been very good friends for about two or three years, our tightness going off and on through fights and so forth. This last Tuesday he expressed to me how he feels for me more than just a friend, he knows that with school and everything I am not interested in a relationship right now. I've never really been attracted to him, he's not very good at grammer or writing, and I'm an English major, and he doesn't have drop dead looks to make up for it...yet I just recently found myself falling really fast for him. We could never spend our lives together, our careers don't match. What do I do? give it up and fall in love with him? or buck it and continue with my old dream?

2007-05-12 19:15:17 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel messed up. I love my girl but we fight alot and don't like the same things. We have a kid 2gether. The weird thing I have to ask is. Is it weird that I don't really like her sister at all but man I want to have sex with her? It feels kinda wrong but, I get all weird and I stare at her chest and well. I can't really stand her as a person though. WTF?

2007-05-12 19:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by L-roy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok So I have been in a completely monagamous relationship for three years. We're engaged. About two years ago I met my boyfriends roomie. He was nice and funny and he liked me but nothing happened.

On Sunday I called my bf's roomate who now has a gf for a few months to tell him I have a crush on him(told my boyfriend and he told me to go for it).
We talked and I asked the roomate to reject me so I could get over the what if feeling, he laughed it off and said we should talk later(we talked an hour before about everything but the crush and him not being able to make a woman happy and to break up with my bf, he called me pretty etc).

He is an ARIES man and I am a Libra. Why hasn't he called me yet? Why didn't he reject me? I also sent him an email telling him why I think he's a good person. Can someone help me out? I am really confused.
He went today to his gf's house like he does every weekend is this a rejection? Why didn't he just reject me on the phone?

2007-05-12 19:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband drives me crazy. He is on lots of medication. And he smokes "POT". When he gets up he will put both his shoes on., not tie them and walk around for awhile. I don't get it. you are too lazy to tie them. Your a baby and waiting for Mommy. Then after about 10-15 min. tie them. This is every day. Not a back problem and he has a hard time bending over. Look he isn't trying to do the cool-untied shoe look. WTF
What is going on?

2007-05-12 19:13:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, here is the problem...

I used to love my best friend but thats all changed now. She likes me for who I am and I loved her for who she was. Now that im not crushing on her 24/7 I find myself looking at other girls.

I think im a resionably attractive guy and im pritty easy going. I do have a scarcastic side that can be killer but I think that people take life incredibly too seriously so I just try to make fun of life and have a good time with it. I smoke and I drink (not heavy) Im 420 friendly for special occasions but not often at all.

All I want in a girl is not a cow but not a stick, I like girls with a bit of meat on em, I want a girl with a mind, I dont want some dumb blonde. Just someone that I can hold a conversation with and someone that loves me for me but I cant seem to find anyone thats even interested in me weither they fit the criteria or not. Am I ugly? am I asking too much? I just dont understand, any ideas ppl?

PIC OF ME:
www.myspace.com/glimdoom

2007-05-12 19:12:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she hae a boy friend but we love each other too but the guy goes to the other school so should i just make a move on her or what

2007-05-12 19:12:26 · 6 answers · asked by datblackdude_101 1 in Friends

is that ok\? lol i am a male!

2007-05-12 19:11:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-12 19:11:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really liked this girl at my school, but never really did anything for most of the school year. About a month ago, I started saying hi to her, and we'd wave at each other whenever we see each other. Things were going fine and friendly until this one day that I decided to make a move and talked to her about studying together for an upcoming AP test.

She said she didn't have the time but offered to exchange emails. Then, when I got home, I emailed her and talked more about the subject. After about a day or so, I asked her whether she'd be able to meet another time, and she replied to both saying that she just can't meet.

Alright, so that's a turning point. From there on, things just got extremely awkward. All the greetings suddenly stop, replies to future emails sounded less friendly, etc.

The question is - how do I steer this back to normal? Did it become awkward as she got an obvious hint that I like her? What's the best thing to do?

2007-05-12 19:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by excelblue 4 in Singles & Dating

we've been friends for almost 9 years now.I am 19 and he is 16.he used to be courteous toward me.but one day,to my surprise,he said:**** you asshole..!!!
I said what is my crime?
he said:nothing...I was bored...and this way i can have some fun.!!!
later on i found out....he had learned those words due to watching some movies rated NC-17.
he kept doing that...I told his mother...he got mad at me....forgot to say sometime in the past he had threaten to tell my mother about my secret relation with a girl...that was just his imagination....he claimed i had a girlfriend and that i was a sexual pervert!...that was how he justified himself and his swear words....
by the way i dont think i can stick this ill-tempered guy a day longer....shall i drop him like a hot potato....we havent talked to each other for 6 or 7 months now...

2007-05-12 19:07:19 · 4 answers · asked by Farzad manda 2 in Friends

She says she wants to be friends, she says that I must be hurting and I tell her I'm not. If she's trying to make me jealous, what's the best way to handle it? Stop talking to her, or make her feel comfortable with me again by saying that I think it's great and I'm ready and willing to just be friends? I have already admitted what I did wrong in the relationship, which was not spend enough time with her, not make time for her, and not hold up my end of the relationship , if I say that I think it's great and I'm happy for her, and I'm glad that we can be friends. Won't that look better than flipping out and saying that I never want to talk to her again. I love her and I know I love her, I want to spend the rest of my life with her and I want her to see how serious I am, in an extremely subtle way. Hopefully she doesn't read this or I'm not being very subtle, but you get the point. Look forward to your response.

2007-05-12 19:07:15 · 3 answers · asked by Gary G 2 in Singles & Dating

we married from 2003.soon after my marriage he left me in his house for 7 months and not taking me with him to his work place by saying he had some tours and also that is thr custom to stay with parents first.i reached here alone.after that i feel he is a very shy and silent loving person.he laughs occasionally.last december i find him subcribe to diff gay sites.when i asked he told me it was just an excitement to know abt gay.i got some sexy sent sms to a male and again when i asked he told me ,that person was giving him that kind of sms so he reply back.now i am bit afraid .he nevers say me no to anythg.he has no family friends.he bnever allow me to kiss him when we make sex and also his approch is same everyday.and when i say no to sex he agree easily.He is a Phd holde and very studious.also a vice president of very renound company.
now you help me finding out is he a gay?

2007-05-12 19:05:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-12 19:05:40 · 6 answers · asked by SATJ12 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

With all the cheating and extramarital affairs going on, I want to be sure my bf feels free to tell me about all relationships he has with other women. He had one one serious relationship before me, he want's us to marry, but I feel he hasn't really "been there done it" with other women and I'm afraid that one day he will "discover" women and leave me. (forbidden fruit syndrome) I told him it's OK if he wants to sleep with other women so long as he lets me know. He got upset and said that if I loved him I wouldn't suggest that and that being with another women my cause him to stray from me. If he hasn't been with other women how's he know im the 1? Do you think it's risky to marry a man with so little "experiance." Or is it riskier to let him have other women too? I love him deeply and don't want to loose him. Am I just paranoid? Help, PLEASE.

2007-05-12 19:05:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would that turn you off? Is is better to bring up the fact you are a single father from the very start as I have done prior (I believe honesty is the best policy) or wait until later to let a woman know? I ask because the fact I have a 5 year old was described by one woman as "too much drama" she did not say that to me but to others I know. I get the impression from the questions and answers I have read that nice, stable men are not what most women seem to want, (sorry but read some of the posts on here and that is what it seems like) and having a child seems to make me less in demand. I ask the question to see if that is the general feeling with women or have I just been unlucky with those I have met? Please be honest with your answers. Thanks!!

2007-05-12 19:04:49 · 8 answers · asked by Spartacus34 2 in Singles & Dating