Hey ladies, how much does money matter?

Question

Would you still date a guy who you found very attractive ( physically/ intellectualy) if he told you that he doesnt make much money?

Answer 1

Money has nothing to do with how I feel about a person. You can have just as much fun maybe more doing the cheap date stuff. It's superficial and materialistic to put money as a reason you'd go out with someone. Money doesn't equal real love. Sure it can buy you affection, but do you really want that empty gratification at the end of the day when you're looking for something real and lasting?

Answer 2

Yes. I recently attended of a lecture that was being provided. The mini lecture was presented by a woman who had written a book titled " How to get you're M & M's " or something like that. The M and M's represented Men and Money. I attended the mini lecture to gain deeper insight of the mind of men...how people think while dating or in while in a relationship.

The woman lecturer would ask the women attending what they were seeking...what was their interest in the lecture. Every one of the women spoke of relationships, the heart, authentic feelings. Not one mentioned money.
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If a man has much money...yet is clueless of how to hug the heart...the money does'nt do allot of good.

Speaking from experience...I walked away from a 23 yr. marriage and lots of money because he was behaving in a clueness and devaluing way of relating. I have much less money now...yet am so much happier. And I do date...yet my focus is to know of a man's character...not what car he drives or amout of money he has. So...does that give you some insight as to the balance of importance that women feel between a man of emotional intelligence or his money?

Those dollar bills don't do allot of good when you desire to be embraced, related with and valued of the heart.
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Answer 3

Money does mean a lot. Being poor is very hard and not much fun. Takes money to do everything. Go to school get an education and get that high paying job, you will be happier too. In the long run it is very important. If you want a nice place to live and to be able to go places and do things, all that is very expensive these days. When you get old you will want to have plenty of money to live out your days comfortably. No reason to keep a low paying job, except to help put you through college or university........to get that high paying job, it will be the best thing you ever did for yourself and your future wife and possible children............

Answer 4

Money does matter to put food on the table, a roof over ones head and a little to save for a rainy day.

Answer 5

Of course. The amount of money a person has isn't as important as the fact that he's making an effort. It would be a different story though if the gentleman doesn't have much money because he would rather bum around than work.

Answer 6

Absolutely

Answer 7

Wow thats a tough one i think i would be sceptical as to how we would servive cus u have to admit money makes the world go round.
On the other hand if he is ambitious and has goals then we could make money together through various strategies.

Answer 8

For many females, the most attractive feature on a man is a large wallet

Answer 9

You bet! There are wayyyyy too many very attractive, intelligent men with money who are as ses!

Sandy

Answer 10

definately yes, i actually wouldn't want to date someone who was really rich, coz all rich guys can think of is how to get more money, and besides... those guys can get all the girls they want through money.