My girlfriend is like being really rude. She like's tell's me off like I asked her if she wanted to see a movie and she said "Not with you" and she was all like just playing. She keep's doing that. and when I tell her I love her she usually tell's me she loves me back but now she don't say it and she tell's me she don't believe me. WDF is going on? why is she doing this?
2007-05-12 19:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should try backing off a little and see what she does. If she loves you, then she'll reach out to you. If she reaches out to someone else, then she's just not that into you.
2007-05-12 19:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Zephyr_dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bro, but maybe prepare for the worst.
Hopefully not, but in today's sissy society a lot of people cannot break-up decently with another human being, so they become somewhat passive aggressive and hope their partner just takes the hint.
I've had a couple of buddies experience what you are now going through, and none of them wound up coming out good...or loving...or happy, relationship-wise at least.
My advice: ask her straight forward why she's acting rude lately. Play it loose, like you don't really care. Mask your feelings and no matter what happens, maintain your dignity. If she wants to argue, or break up, or make fun of you being paranoid, straighten your spine and know that you're a bit too cool for these dumb games.
3.3 BILLION or so women on the planet, dude, so there's plenty more fish in the sea, and I'm gonna guess you deserve better than a girlfriend who won't say "I love you" back...or can't simply hang out and be nice and cool and basically worthy of keeping around.
Good luck man, and I hope it works out. But no matter what goes down, you'll be alright.
Hang in there.
2007-05-13 02:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by JBrian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of two reasons I can think of. She is either on her period, or she has lost respect for you. I can tell this is really bothering you and that is not JOKING when she says those rude things to you, tell her that you will not put up with it, because if she thinks it is ok to talk with you like that just imagine in a year or two. Sorry to hear this and Good Luck. No one should be talked down to especially by the one they love.
2007-05-13 02:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I advise you to spend some time away from her. If she is going to play head games with you and not just say whats bugging her then let her have her space for awhile and you go out and have some fun without her.
2007-05-13 02:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your girlfriend is pushing you away, trying to get you to break up with her so she does not have to be the bad guy or maybe you did something to make her mad. you should just ask her whats going on and why is she talking to you like this, only she knows whats going on , all any of us can do is guess.
2007-05-13 02:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by fortheloveoforange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant tell I dont know her side of the story, but if it has anything to do with not being there for her, being a mooch more of a helper than that problaby has something to do with it.
2007-05-13 02:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its just a phase. You know? she's trying to be a bch. give her time but i do have a feeling that she wants out. u can try acting like a btch back to her. see how she reacts. and maybe she'll get ur point and till feel sorry for treating you like that.
2007-05-13 02:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women were put on this earth 2 f*** mens heads up my x was the same then i found out she was avin an affair why i was working away from home n she was spending my money on him need i say any more
2007-05-13 04:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe someone told her a lie bout u!!! talk to her and tell her dat u dont like the way she is acting !.....and tell her dat when u say u love her u really mean it ....maybe I'm not saying dat this is true but maybe she doesn't want u anymore ...but i dunno cuz ur the only one dat know what is happening with u 2 ...so talk w/her communication is #2 in a relationship!!!! good luck
2007-05-13 02:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by sweet-candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants out.
2007-05-13 02:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋